Masturbation at school

Do you mean like the things built into some underwear?

 

I feel like it's probably best to just wait cause getting caught would be super awkward and there's not a lot of privacy in most school bathrooms...

 

Ugh *deletes posts from memory*

 

Maybe a "love egg?" They might all be battery-operated though.
I would agree with the recommendation of wait until you get home.

 

Sorry :icon_redf

 

Ben Wa balls are what you're thinking of. Why do I know this... :icon_sad:

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Goodness, OP just deal. I'm 26 and still haven't had a first kiss. Abstinence isn't lethal...

 

*looks up Ben Wa balls*

This actually isn't it, although great guess. The device I was thinking of has a flared base.

Don't see why this wouldn't be worth giving a try by the OP, though...

 

Erm, just a question, but: Would it be lethally embarrassing to get a doctor's appointment and discuss your libido right now, and how it feels so pressing & urgent so often that you're feeling the need to find ways to sneak sexual release into your public daily goings-about?

Because generally the definition of whether something is a 'problem' or not, with both the medical and psych community, is if you feel that it is interfering with your basic daily life activities. (i.e., taking over/command of your life, a bit)

If you don't feel this way, and you like it and just want to get off, that's fine. Just be careful about appropriateness of location & situation, and being seen or heard (inappropriately).

But I thought maybe it sounded like you are a bit frustrated & distracted to an unpleasant degree at this point, and it is possible that a doctor might have a hormonal solution. Like a low-dose something-or-other (birth control pills, or estrogen, or whatever) that could alleviate some of the pressure you're feeling.

Someone here said once that if you're over 14, a doctor has to ask your parents to leave the exam room if you request it? (In case you have parents who would want to go in there with you, and be snoopy, and you're mortified of discussing your reason for being there, with them.)

 

^ I agree. The kind of libido described is waaay too intense and perhaps requires medical intervention.

 

Damn...too bad you live in Wisconsin or we would make a good couple. I have mastered the art of masturbating in public restrooms.

 

That's what I'm thinking too now. Maybe this huge need to jerk off will get less intense with time.

 

Either way, the OP is 18 and legally an adult. It would definitely be within her rights to ask her parents to leave.

 

FWIW, there are some people (women, it seems, particularly) who seem to have a genuinely uncontrollable problem with sexual arousal. I seem to remember reading about this woman (not the only case, either) whom orgasms hundreds of times per day, her libido is that hyperactive. I believe she ended up having to get on some kind of medication to try to kill off her sex drive, although memory's not 100% on this (is it ever?).

So let's not shut the door on the possibility that this might be a physiological issue the OP is dealing with. If "mastering the art of public bathroom masturbation" (as one poster put it) or wearing some sort of device would help to release the tension, issue might be handled fine right there with no lapsing into addiction. If her need is extreme enough to not to be met in this way, maybe it's a matter for her physician.

$0.02

 

I,...

really wouldn't reccommend it

 

Um not sure what to tell you...

 

Okay, please don't quote me on this but I know it became a recent thing in Michigan.

You know how public urination like near a school or playground will put you on the sex offender database? Well masturbating in public has the same idea to it which means getting caught leads to more than just a firm "don't do that". This might be because of the school environment has minors. Again don't quote me on that for your area, I just know my school had an assembly about it and shit with an officer.

Secondly, I am the horniest girl I have met. I mean on a good day 7-9 orgasm is common, but I can wait until I get home to flick the bean. And honestly their shouldn't be an excuse for being so horny you can't take it.

Thirdly, if you are going to do it. DON"T USE A FUCKING VIBRATOR. The issue with that plan is the noise and also if you're found with one. If you are already extremely horned up you shouldn't need a vibrator to finish the job.

TL;DR?

1- Check the laws in your area.
2- ...
3- Don't use a vibrator at a school.

Good Luck.

 

From what you describe, it seems you may suffer from hyper sexuality. This is an actual know condition (so for those who think you just need more self control, you need to understand this is an actual physical condition which can be very detrimental to those afflicted). I've seen research and cases of people who need regular stimulation and if they don't get it, it can cause severe depression, anxiety and loss of concentration. It can actually be physically very uncomfortable for these people when they get the urge for stimulation.

The problem you can also face, is it can also put a strain on future relationships, as your partner may feel they can not meet your needs and satisfy you. It's something you should try and nip in the bud now. If it's really a problem you can see your doctor. There are some medications as well as other therapies that can help reduce your sex drive somewhat, making it more manageable.

Hope that helps.

Happy days

 

Personally, I would wait until I got home. It would be a bit awkward if someone walked in on you...
But do whatever you feel is best, of course. As long as it's not bothering anyone else, you should be okay.