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Heteroflexible?

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  1. jaje69

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    Sorry, I haven't been on in a few days.

    Would you be interested in a relationship with a dominant female partner who enjoys watching you perform oral on other men? Depending on what you're into this could be part of humiliation/degradation play, or something where you are hers to lend out to other men as she pleases. It would all be for her enjoyment, so you would fulfill her desires, and you would also be able to enjoy some sexual encounters with men in the context of a heterosexual relationship. And of course, you'd be owned by a gorgeous dominant woman, which is a plus. Of course, remember to keep everything Safe, Sane, and Consensual. :slight_smile:
     
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    It would depend how extreme things were. My self-confidence isn't too high at this point in my life. So I wouldn't be able to take the degradation or lots of humiliation.

    But it does sound interesting. And I would be willing to give it a shot. Provided I can stop things if it got too much for me. There would also need to be some limits or ground rules as well.
     
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    never heard the term Heteroflexible before. does it mean a straight person who is open minded?
     
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    Pretty much. Dominantly heterosexual, but slight homosexual tendencies. They may have the occasional same-sex experiences. It's a "shade" under bisexual. At least, that's how I would define it and understand it.
     
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    i like to consider myself an open minded guy so would that mean that i'm heteroflexible?
     
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    That depends what you mean by open minded. If you are willing to suck a guy or experience anal, even if you are just doing it because you know your girl will get off on it, then I would say yes.
     
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    what i meant about me being open minded was that a few years ago i let a guy give me a hand job. i'm not sure if that makes me heteroflexible or not?
     
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    Just that once, and didn't happen again. I wouldn't say so. Just open minded.

    But I would also think it would depend on how you felt about things if you had another same-sex experience. If you are open to it, and like I mentioned before, even if it's for your partners benefit, then I would say yes.
     
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    Any degradation or humiliation would only happen with your consent. It's not a kink everyone has.

    And of course you could stop things at any time. That's what safewords are for :slight_smile: Soft limits and hard limits should definitely be discussed beforehand with any scene
     
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    So, yeah. That's something I would consider. Start out small anyways.
     
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    hi jaje69. actually it happened twice and not once. both times i let him jerk me off. it was a few years ago.
     
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    Then you may be heteroflexible. How do that make you feel?
     
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    i don't know. it was a few years ago and i never gave it much thought. i don't feel anything really.
     
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    Of course. It's not a great idea to push yourself too much too soon.
     
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    Maybe it's something you should think about. If you want, that is.

    ---------- Post added 3rd May 2014 at 10:49 PM ----------

    I definitely wouldn't want that. Take things slow and go from there. That is, if I can find a girlfriend that's into that sorta thing.
     
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    Hello, in some research on the web to find my place in the world I' have found this forum, and for that thanks.
    This is totally me, I'm crazy about women I get super arroused to see a beautiful women, and I don't find male attractive at all, although as a gymn addicted I like to appreciated the male body. But I love penis, I enjoy anal, anal stretch and sucking, all the sexual tension makes me horny sometimes a don't have an erection but I' have been in saunas had sex as passive, and the feeling of being a Sexual being without Tabus is something that I truly love. Honestly with all comments and remarks I feel heteroflexible. Thanks