Pronouns for peeps outside the gender binary

I'm still in the process of figuring out my gender identity, but the title I keep coming back to is agender. As far as pronouns, I'd prefer people avoid them (and other gendered words, for that matter) entirely. Just use my name or other descriptive words if you're talking about me.

"Hey, do you know cava?"
"Oh that little nerd over there?"
"Yeah, the one with the face."

No pronouns necessary! If people forget or if they're grammatically required to use a pronoun or whatever, I guess I don't really care which ones they use. I've seen a handful of options in addition to the well-known he and she, and to be honest, I haven't found that any resonate with me personally.

 

The jury is of course still out, but I think more and more people are liking singular they.

 

The only non-binary gender indentifying person I ever really knew that well just told people that either set of pronouns were okay and didn't really have a preference. Though I've also heard some people prefer they/them.

 

I'm cool with either male or female pronouns. I don't like the 'them, their' thing because it makes me sound like I have someone else attached to me that I don't know about. People I'm out too tend to just stick to my physical sex ones, which is vaguely annoying but not completely inaccurate.

 

I go by my birth pronoun she but I kind of prefer he him his idk though

 

I'm fine with people calling me a he which is my birth noun, but it pleases me to hear people call me a she too. Either way, I'm not going to complain to someone if they use one or the other.

I'm not a big fan of singular 'they.'

 

I like "they", but EVERYONE seems to call me "he". :/

 

I don't make too much of a fuss of pronouns but usually go by male pronouns anyway, otherwise, they/them.