Would you try threesomes with a boyfriend?

I'm open to the idea if it is a casual thing for me, and I'm not in a relationship with either guy. Like if a couple asks me to join them, I would. But if I am dating a guy, then no.. I don't wanna share him.

I think you can definitely find a lot of guys who would be interested. :icon_wink

 

No! I don't like the idea of sharing my man. Two are enough, a third person would be unnecessary.

 

Been there and never doing it again. But I did make a friend out of it.

 

Probably not. Unless they are so desperate to do it that they drag me into it.

 

Honestly, I doubt it. I really want an exclusive relationship and I value intimacy with my partner-to-be as something I would only do with someone I really truly love. Even if we bth agreed on having sex along with a random third guy, I feel like having that third guy would undermine the emotional significance of the intimacy between just me and my partner. But, that's just me.

 

If my (future) boyfriend is all cool with it, then yeah I could be up for it.

The dynamic is important though. We would have to go into it together with one other guy, not all as individuals (if that kinda makes sense...)

 

This is exactly what i thought.

 

Somebody would get jealous. It almost always happens.

 

Short answer. Yep.

 

Been there, done that. IMHO, it's not all it's cracked up to be. It seems like someone's always left out, even if it's only for a moment. I prefer to concentrate on one person at a time. Not a multi-tasker when it comes to sexual activity.

 

No I would never do this. I can only imagine being that intimate with someone if I am truly in love with them. There's no way I'd ever have mutual love with a second person, as I am committed to monogamy.

 

No. I'm so turned off by it that a potential mate even expressing a desire for one is a deal-breaker for me. Sexual intimacy is something that, in my opinion, is so special and personal, and you're being vulnerable for your partner to have this special connection (and being vulnerable is something I'm very reluctant to be in front of anyone). Bringing someone else in just negates all of that and cheapens it in my eyes. The sexual intimacy then loses all meaning.

 

I don't know if it would turn out well, but I would probably try it. The second person had better be female, though.

 

Maybe. I've yet to actually have sex yet, so I dunno how I'd like it.

 

Nope. I mean, at one point, I thought I definitely would, but now I don't think I'd be into it.

 

Nope. Never would. I don't like the idea of sharing the one I love. If it was something he really wanted to do and kept expressing interest in it, it would probably be over.

 

if i had a boyfriend, i really dont know.

I think if he asked i might feel a little insulted, but i think i would be curious myself.

And there is always the rule that the third person must be a stranger -to make sure it wont affect your relationship...It could become very awkward if either your bf spends more time with this third person than with you, leaving you out of it all...

I personally dont care much about threesomes, i dont find it appealing. But i might get curious....