How do you define yourself as a lover?

I prefer one man but often find myself doing the one night stand. Right now with one guy and happy.:smilewave

 

Have done one-night stands (hell, have done one hour stands) and long term relationships (the current one is at 16yrs and counting)

Historically, I've had fun with the hookups but leaned toward relationships (sometimes when I shouldn't have). I don't apply any moral standard to either, or open or poly or whatever thing works best for folks as long as its all consensual and no one is getting hurt or the like.

I'm quite happy being monogamous, although a closed poly relationship has sounded interesting in the past, at least in theory (at the time had no idea how to make such a thing a reality).

Todd