Well it can be hard to find other gays because some hide so well I've been looking for ways to hint it so I can find others to kinda hang out with most people my age hide it so well but not me I walk into a place and get hit on by much older guys than me and I'm not open at all. So apparently gaydar is real but most don't get it till 35. I honestly dress punk/emo tight shirts skinny jeans shit loads of bracelets but no one my age gets a hint
As a girl there's always the opportunity of just mentioning a female celebrity when everyone is talking about cute boys. Or if someone starts teasing you with a boy you could just say "but I'm a lesbian" like it's an obvious fact about you they should already know. Not sure if that works for you though...i'm usually going with"fake it till you make it" confidence but i know lots of people have a problem with that... ---------- Post added 28th Dec 2016 at 02:03 PM ---------- Never underestimate an introvert....they're unstoppable once they actually open up...*shiver*