Porn star wants to hook up!!!!!!!

Sounds kind of gauche, to be quite frank.

 

gee you must be good looking!
well, do YOU want to hook up?
will it be something to brag abt or be embarrassed abt in the future?
he is only human, do you think he is not worthy of you...you may be too good for him!
is this something you will feel guilt over, like you are just a piece of meat, not a person?
will u regret not doing it the rest of your life?

is up to you. i totally see why u r confused over it. if me, I'm not sure if id do it or not myself! will u let us know what you do...and if it was good?

 

hahahha...

idk how long tests take, but are you going to ask him to get tested even if?

 

Porn stars often don't use condoms, because they tend to be considered unattractive by those watching (I'm not sure why, I find safe sex VERY attractive). Just insist that he use protection with YOU regardless of his usual policies...and make sure that's clear BEFORE he arrives.

 

Its up to you. As others have said, use protection. I'll add a tip of my own: You've never met this guy, correct? Just make sure you're safe. It isn't just women who are at risk when meeting people IRL they met online.

 

Ehhhh.... I'm not trying to crash the party... I mean it really would be tempting and all, but a lot of unprotected sex... I would be quite worried...

"Safe sex" can only be so safe in my honest but humble opinion...

 

That's right, you are gay...that means unprotected sex by a porn star can make you pregnant. He is likely very good at knocking up other gay men, thus is cum got so strong the sperm destroys all condoms. This is why using a condom is futile. Yes, be safe, get a wedding ring 1st, so you can go after him in the divorce. (I just gotta be funny sometimes. Its the wee bit o Irish in me)

 

I thought this thread was just cleverly named as a joke! But its real! Whoa :O lol I wouldnt. Although it does seem like a once in a lifetime opportunity. If you do agree, practice safe sex okay. Okaaay?

 

Porn stars are people too.

 

He makes a living having sex expect an invoice or to be recruited for a film. A casting call is tax deductible in his business. It is all job related to him to be sure.

Then there is the huge disease risk.

Whole thing very unattractive to me.

 

Honestly, I'd probably take up the offer, as it sounds like a fun night.

If you did though, make SURE he understands that if he wants to get with you, a condom is a must. Wrap it before you tap it!

All the best.

 

How do you know that he's not someone pretending to be this porn star? This sounds sketchy as hell. You could be endangering yourself big time.

 

Well most big-time porn stars are regularly tested. It's an industry, and if you let all your actors get STDs, well you're going to have a difficult time making profit. They usually get tested often, and if they do get an STD, have it treated, or if it is untreatable, abstain from productions until the outbreak goes away.

I agree. Make sure this is actually the porn star's twitter, i.e check the porn site and see if it's published there. Still, I'd be cautious about this, it seems more than a little "unusual" to me

To be honest, this isn't something I would do. I like sex just as much as the rest of us, but I'm not really interested in having sex of any kind with someone I don't feel close to. I'm not trying to shame you, I just suggest that you make sure you're not making this decision because you're super-horny, and that you're actually fine with it.

 

Porn stars are just people like everybody else, except they feel comfortable enough to show themselves on camera. So just the fact that he's a porn star is no reason not to do it.

If you want to do it, do it. There's nothing wrong with casual hookups as long as both parties involved know it's nothing more than that, and it sounds like you both know perfectly well.

That being said, you have to be sure he is who he says he is. Have you skyped him or actually seen him on cam any other way? If not, that would be the first thing you wanna do before meeting up with him.

Also, as everyone else has said, play it safe and make sure he knows that too before he gets there to avoid him trying to convince you to do otherwise.

If you're absolutely sure about who he is, and you've come to an agreement on playing it safe, then I don't see any problem with it.

Have fun

 

I agree with this statement most.

For me though....I do have a porn star favorite....and if I actually had the opportunity to hook up with him....I wouldn't have to think twice.....I'D BE HITTING THAT ALL DAY LONG!!! :roflmao: ....and if he wanted it on film I'd be pretty okay with that too.

 

Agreed. If you want to be with him then that's fine! Do it! Just be safe!

 

If one of the porn stars I watch wanted to hook up with me, I'll get aroused and then I'll turn him/her down.

I just like to watch unprotected anal sex hehe, so they are prone to have a lot of STD's.

 

Tests take about 3 months... and they're not 100% accurate.