The kinsey scale is pretty meaningless, it's not specific at all and even the gayest people ever can get ranked as mostly straight sometimes because there's no actual 'official kinsey test' they're all different and run by different organizations with different questions. Bisexuality is definitely real though. If saying you're bi is a cop to being gay then apparently being gay is a cop to being straight for me because even though I'm happy dating a guy I still like vagina and breasts very much.
It's just a lot of gay men have come out as bisexual only to retract and come out gay. Its ruined the image of bisexuals. If you know you're bi the you are.
Y you mean other than having sex with a guy friend at 13? Actually I didn’t really think about it much for years. I’ve always been really into women. Over time I couldn’t ignore other urges that were always in the back of my mind
Man this is true. When I came out to my wife as bisexual and I decided to hang out with gay men I heard "I had a bi-phase too". I responded that "I doubt I'm gonna go totally straight any time soon". That shut them up. After awhile, they stopped inviting me to the parties because I was still happy being with my wife and didn't "go gay". I don't know why gay men feel it is better to be bisexual as they come out. Being bisexual was no picnic being younger. I broke an engagement because I freaked about being turned on by a guy making a pass at me. I almost destroyed a marriage. And, as a young kid my boyfriend freaked when I started chasing a girl around. It's hard to find a balance. It's taken me my whole life to finally like being bisexual and stop being jealous of both straight and gay guys. Now, I feel sorry for them!
Some men will come out as bi and then come out as gay. I did that. Why? Because I understand myself a lot better than when I was 13. I know that I'm not attracted to women. Also, bisexuality is not fake. It's quite real actually. I'm not sure why you insist on assigning labels to people. I've seen it several times where if someone identifies as gay but does something that can be seen as "not gay" you assume that they're bi. I've said it before, and I'll say it again: people decide their own identities. If a gay man likes lesbian porn, good for him as long as he doesn't get an unhealthy addiction. I've gotten off to porn because of a woman before, yet I'm gay. I'll admit that I doubt most gay men watch lesbian porn, I don't, but just because someone does does not make them any less gay.
I think this is why using porn to determine your sexuality isn’t the best idea. The whole point of porn is to show the viewer something erotic and some times people can get off on just the fact that it is erotic.
It isn’t definitive but I haven’t come across any gay men into lesbian porn. I’m not saying they don’t exist but I can’t begin to think what would arouse them in it. I know that sexuality can be a complicated twisted thing but really.......... nope!
I guess I'm bi because I like giving oral, but in my case, yes. Lesbian porn is my preference along with watching porn with men with big penises.