all my life....girls appeal more to me than guys. Like someone said before..I sometimes wonder...am I just gay? because most of the time I don't like men acting sexual toward me...it erks me out. But, there have been 2 guys to be exact I have deeply love and only had eyes for them only 1 of the 2 I could see myself settling down with. I have no clue who I may marry/seriously settle down with. I think it could be either. I look more for emotional and mental enrichment...as well as someone who wants similar lifestyles. A person who treats me with respect and honors my well-being. I will have my final verdict of my sexuality on my death bed lol (bad joke, probably) But 99.999% sure I am bisexual.
I have no fecking clue since I go to an all girls school but I think I'm more easily romantically attracted to girls and more easily sexually attracted to guys. But mostly it's up to personality :/
I'm fluid - sometimes I find myself more into men, sometimes more into women, sometimes both evenly. But I don't really like the label "sexually fluid," because on some level I am always attracted to both sexes, even if I lean more one way or the other at certain times.
I used to wonder about that all the time when I was younger. Now I just take it as it comes. If that makes sense.
I'd say I prefer men to women. I tend to be less picky with what men I find attractive than women. Growing up, I was the exact opposite. I primarily or exclusively found women attractive. Perhaps, "picky" is the wrong word. The kinds of women I find attractive I rarely even encounter.
It's easier for me to find a guy attractive than a girl. Even completely average to below average looking guys still look nice to me most of the time. It surprises me, because I'll know a guy doesn't actually look good to other people yet I still get intrigued for some reason. On the other hand, with women they actually have to be above average for me to even notice them usually. All the rest kind of blend into the background. I have difficulty remembering women's faces too, which is weird. I frequently can't visualize what a woman looks like within an hour or so of seeing them no matter how long I've known them. That has never happened with a guy. So... more gay I guess, I don't know really.
When I was living as a cis girl I ID'd more as gay, in fact almost exclusively, but I've since experienced a very intense infatuation with a guy. Now that I acknowledge that I'm a guy myself I suppose I'm more straight with a few gay crushes, though I know a few NB people that I've found attractive as well. I guess I like at least a little of everyone.
Would say 50/50 - it's easier for me to connect with guys than girls - but I enjoy both in equally. For guys it's less pickier than when I am around a girl haha.
It depends. I've had more emotional attachments to guys than girls but in some way I find women more sexually attractive. So I'm not sure.
This is one of my favorite things to speculate because I had to grow into knowing the answer for myself. It's well known that I like girls more but I don't use percentages. I've been stratified most of my life to prefer men and hide my bisexuality. Since these perceptions dominated my life I have always been with males. After 20 years I stopped pleasing everyone and I decided to live the way that I wanted. Yeah, I have a stronger preference to woman but I may end up with a man. After finding myself the only percentage I care about is if I want to be with the other person 100%. I don't ever want a man to think 80% of me wants to run off with a girl or a female to feel 20% of what I need can't be fulfilled by them. When I was younger in this self discovery I learned that anything but giving my 100% to a person left them hesitant and unsure. Honestly, if I'm with someone it is because they are meeting all the needs that I have.
In that past, I was more attracted to women than men. I was also more picky about the appearance of men. Recently, that has change a little bit. I started to become more of a 50/50 mix ever since coming out to my family.
Most of the time it's 50/50, but if I had to choose I think I lean a little bit more to the gayer side of the spectrum
Have you explored the term heteroflexible? This describes what you say, however you can use (or forgo) whatever label you are most comfortable with. I know maybe people who would consider themselves bisexual but vary greatly on degree of "gayness", so to speak. Some people are 50-50, some are mostly attracted to one gender over another, and some are more fluid. All expressions are valid.
I'm about 99% gay, but my sexuality has been semi-fluid. I can enjoy having sex with women, but I'm not attracted to them, and won't do certain things in bed. Guys really get me going, so I just use the label "gay" to keep things simple.
I'm more bisexual. It's true that my feelings towards guys and girls are different, but they are still naturally sexual and I can't really say which one of them is the strongest or the most important. I just have them.