I know, but it's one of those things that really brought the point home to me. Like, you'd expect at least some to (or hope for), but none? Really is one of those zero sum/all or nothing, games.
I'll be the first guy to admit that I can be a little girl and sensitive at times. But, I HAVE been made fun of for it even though I'm not the least masculine person ever. Even has happened at martial arts class after I became a black belt...
Still looking forward to the day when men can cross dress openly, make out in public, and call one another "beautiful", with no backlash. Probably not happening soon, but who says we can't give it a little push?
The problem is it is men who judge each other and themselves. You can't support yourself and judge yourself for the same thing. Females at least claim that they are being objectified and oppressed by a different group but people don't think about how hard it is to deal with being marginalized by other people of the same group.
Yet I'm sure women can recognize that it isn't just men who "oppress" them. Lord knows "slut shaming" does not just come from men. Women often undermine each other just as much as men do. The supposed unity amongst a gender seems like a pie-in-the-sky fantasy.
Every fucking post on my Facebook feed. Like everyone of the last 20 posts. Literally. Is about trump, anti trans shit and trans people being murdered. Shared by groups and friends (cis and trans). Fuck that shit. I don't need this in my fucking life. And if my conservative aunt comes over on welfare praising emperor orange fuck face I will lose it on her. And yes the entire family will know and I will be out 100% to everyone instead of 99.99999%. Uggghhhhh
Biggest question I have for the surgeon at the follow-up appointment is how soon I can start exercising.
I washed clothes at my house, only to find out that the dryer was broken. So, now I'm sitting at a random laundromat rewashing and dry8ng my clothes.
One time I washed my work clothes and forgot to put them in the dryer so I had to go to work damp. And it was cold outside to begin with.
Desperate times, desperate measures. This dinner is Ramen noodles topped with Tapatio sauce and lemon...