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How Was 2008 For You?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Martin, Dec 25, 2008.

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How was 2008 for you?

  1. 1 - Worst Year Ever

    6.2%
  2. 2

    2.7%
  3. 3

    12.4%
  4. 4

    7.1%
  5. 5 - Average/Normal

    11.5%
  6. 6

    9.7%
  7. 7

    18.6%
  8. 8

    15.9%
  9. 9

    5.3%
  10. 10 - Best Year Ever

    10.6%
  1. sdc91

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    1. The biggest change in your life this year?

    I came out to my parents and some other people!

    2. What did you do over the summer?

    Studied abroad in Berlin!

    3. How were relationships with boyfriends/ girlfriends?

    Ha. Ha. Ha... hahahahahaHAHAHA. None. One faker. And one really bad crush... I miss him so much. :frowning2:

    4. What news story sticks in your mind the most from 2008?

    Um, the U.S. economy tanking.

    5. Favourite song from the year?

    Erm, a lot. Don't really have a favorite.

    6. Favourite artist this year?

    Coldplay fo' sho.

    7. Did you make any new years resolutions and if so, did you stick to them?

    Uh, well I did go to the gym a lot the first half of the year, then my routine kinda tanked starting in May after school got out and I never got back into it in August.

    8. What are you most proud of personally this year (i.e.- something you have done)?

    Living alone in a foreign country after only studying the language for a few months was pretty awesome. And coming out.

    9. Who are you most proud of (can be a famous or non- famous person)?

    All the Prop8 protestors... everyone came together. It was kind of a good thing that it passed because now we have organization and spirit.

    10. Did you have to learn any hard life lessons in the past 12 months?

    Oh yeah. A lot.

    11. Have you had any life- changing experiences in 2008?

    Yeah, of course. Every year.

    12. Did you do anything you never thought you would do?

    Yup.

    13. Did you gain any new qualifications?

    Zertifikat Deutsch. Hm, that's about it. Won 10th in some national engineering competition and got onto the university's President's List again.

    14. What is your happiest memory from the year?

    Getting a car!!! <3 my VW Rabbit.

    15. What was your most stupid incident (drunk stories would be good!)?

    None, I think. I look stupid when I dance?

    16. What things do you appreciate most in your life at the moment?

    Everything. :slight_smile: There's a lot to be thankful for.

    17. What are your plans for xmas/ new year?

    Christmas dinner at neighbors, New Year's Eve party

    18. Are you making any new years resolutions for 2009? What do you hope will be different?

    Come out totally for college, and work out more.

    19. How do you rate 2008 on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being the worst and 10 being the best)?

    8. It's been a great year for me.

    20. Will you still be on EC this time next year?

    Maybe...
     
  2. EM68

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    1. The biggest change in your life this year?
    Came to terms that I am gay!
    2. What did you do over the summer?
    Worked all summer! Had no time off
    3. How were relationships with boyfriends/ girlfriends?
    Started to date a bit. There is a guy I really like... see what happens.
    4. What news story sticks in your mind the most from 2008?
    The election and the economic crisis
    5. Favourite song from the year?
    Viva La Vida-Coldplay
    6. Favourite artist this year?
    Coldplay, Kings of Leon
    7. Did you make any new years resolutions and if so, did you stick to them?
    Nope
    8. What are you most proud of personally this year (i.e.- something you have done)?

    Got a new job
    9. Who are you most proud of (can be a famous or non- famous person)?
    My dad. He want through Kemo and radiation treatment and he still kept smiling and kept his awesome attitude.
    10. Did you have to learn any hard life lessons in the past 12 months?
    Can't say I have
    11. Have you had any life- changing experiences in 2008?
    Again came to terms that I am gay. I am soo happy now.
    12. Did you do anything you never thought you would do?
    Kissed a guy.. AND I LIKED IT
    13. Did you gain any new qualifications?
    Got my insurance license
    14. What is your happiest memory from the year?
    My dad had his last treatment.
    15. What was your most stupid incident (drunk stories would be good!)?
    None
    16. What things do you appreciate most in your life at the moment?
    My family and being the happiest I have been in a long time!
    17. What are your plans for xmas/ new year?
    Seeing family and hopefully see they guy I like!
    18. Are you making any new years resolutions for 2009? What do you hope will be different?
    Come out to my family ( parents, brother and sister) and my close friends
    19. How do you rate 2008 on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being the worst and 10 being the best)?
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    20. Will you still be on EC this time next year?
    I plan to! I would miss you guys too much! (&&&)
     
  3. Mirko

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    1. The biggest change in your life this year?

    Coming out to my friends and family

    2. What did you do over the summer?

    Worked, studied and visited my parents for a couple of weeks

    3. How were relationships with boyfriends/ girlfriends?

    Didn't have one yet, but I'm looking forward to it :slight_smile:

    4. What news story sticks in your mind the most from 2008?

    The election of Barack Obama as US President

    5. Favourite song from the year?

    Don't really have a favourite song

    6. Favourite artist this year?

    Don't really have a favourite artist either for this year.

    7. Did you make any new years resolutions and if so, did you stick to them?

    Honestly I can't remember what my new years resolutions were for this year. I doubt that I stuck to them :slight_smile:

    8. What are you most proud of personally this year (i.e.- something you have done)?

    Having had the courage to come out to my friends and family and to be myself around others. Also, being able to tell a guy my feelings for him.

    9. Who are you most proud of (can be a famous or non- famous person)?

    My sister. After I came out to her, she became quite the supporter for different LGBT causes.

    10. Did you have to learn any hard life lessons in the past 12 months?

    Yes.

    11. Have you had any life- changing experiences in 2008?

    Yes. My coming out to family and friends.

    12. Did you do anything you never thought you would do?

    Yes.

    13. Did you gain any new qualifications?

    Not really.

    14. What is your happiest memory from the year?

    I have quite a few happy memories from this year, if you count coming out. I think my happiest memory is having been able to talk with someone about myself in a public place. The experience and what I felt afterward are the happiest memories I have from this year.

    15. What was your most stupid incident (drunk stories would be good!)?

    Falling down while playing table tennis :roflmao:

    16. What things do you appreciate most in your life at the moment?

    Having supportive and accpeting family and friends.

    17. What are your plans for xmas/ new year?

    Spending time with family and friends.

    18. Are you making any new years resolutions for 2009? What do you hope will be different?

    Not sure if I will be making any new years resolutions. I hope that I will be able to go back to my work without a lot of distractions.

    19. How do you rate 2008 on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being the worst and 10 being the best)?

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    20. Will you still be on EC this time next year?

    Definitely yes!
     
  4. BlakeHarmony

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    1. The biggest change in your life this year?
    I really have no idea, what ever it was, it was gradual though
    2. What did you do over the summer?
    I went to sailing school, a day camp where I went paragliding and hanggliding, went to BC, and Quebec and Ontario...
    3. How were relationships with boyfriends/ girlfriends?
    I've never had any...
    4. What news story sticks in your mind the most from 2008?
    Kosovo
    5. Favourite song from the year?
    Hallelujah
    6. Favourite artist this year?
    k.d. Lang (she's always been my favourite)
    7. Did you make any new years resolutions and if so, did you stick to them?
    nope
    8. What are you most proud of personally this year (i.e.- something you have done)?
    I convinced my parents to let me apply for Class Afloat and figured out how I can do everything
    9. Who are you most proud of (can be a famous or non- famous person)?
    my brother, I can see how hard he's trying
    10. Did you have to learn any hard life lessons in the past 12 months?
    not really, I did learn lots though, they might be considered on the hard side of medium.
    11. Have you had any life- changing experiences in 2008?
    not really...
    12. Did you do anything you never thought you would do?
    yep, I applied for class afloat and I'm pretty sure I'll get in (that's what they told me anyways...)
    13. Did you gain any new qualifications?
    I got my CPR/First Aid
    14. What is your happiest memory from the year?
    vic lewis, I had so much fun and I made a really great friend
    15. What was your most stupid incident (drunk stories would be good!)?
    I really don't know...
    16. What things do you appreciate most in your life at the moment?
    my family
    17. What are your plans for xmas/ new year?
    aside from what I've already done (not much) I'll be going up to Edmonton to visit my grandparents
    18. Are you making any new years resolutions for 2009? What do you hope will be different?
    nope
    19. How do you rate 2008 on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being the worst and 10 being the best)?
    8
    20. Will you still be on EC this time next year?
    I sure hope so! I don't at the moment, know why I wouldn't be!
     
  5. davo-man

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    1. The biggest change in your life this year?

    Moving from high school last year to uni this year. Completely different learning environments and lifestyles. A lot more freedom, but a higher level of expectation.

    2. What did you do over the summer?

    Well, summe rhas just begun and I'm using it to work like hell! Apart from that, a lot of coffee breaks with friends, a lot of going out to dinner, partying, clubbing, excessive EXCESSIVE drinking :grin: So basically, working and friends

    3. How were relationships with boyfriends/ girlfriends?


    Hmm, well I broke a man's heart, had many a straight crush and pashed and dashed at a night club :grin:

    4. What news story sticks in your mind the most from 2008?


    The attacks in Mumbai, because it happened a week or two before my best friend went to India

    5. Favourite song from the year?


    Anything from Pink's album, Funhouse...Specifically Mean, Crystal Ball, Ave Mary A, Boring, Bad Influence, Funhouse...basically all of it

    6. Favourite artist this year?


    Pink and Lady Gaga

    7. Did you make any new years resolutions and if so, did you stick to them?


    Hmm...*looks at last years Resolution thread* I did most of it:

    I coloured my hair blond, I cleaned out my room (although it is now a mess again) and at one point, I cleaned out my comp. So yes, I did most of it :grin:

    8. What are you most proud of personally this year (i.e.- something you have done)?


    Getting a High Distinction for a 50% project where we had to design a website. This inspired me to do Website Development as my Sub Major

    9. Who are you most proud of (can be a famous or non- famous person)?


    Sister

    10. Did you have to learn any hard life lessons in the past 12 months?


    That I need to spend less time drunk, on a coffee high and partying and more on studying if I want to get where I wanna be

    11. Have you had any life- changing experiences in 2008?


    Can't say I have

    12. Did you do anything you never thought you would do?


    Colour my hair blond

    13. Did you gain any new qualifications?


    Nope

    14. What is your happiest memory from the year?


    Having a birthday party for a girl who doesn't like me, who lives in Sydney and that didn't know about the party. Basically my group wanted a reason to drink and we saw it was her birthday on FaceBook, so we decided to make that the reason. I still have the birthday card we made for her :slight_smile:

    15. What was your most stupid incident (drunk stories would be good!)?


    Doing a fly kick, but lifting both legs...I landed on my butt. Dropping a spoon in a huge cup of coffee. Telling every bartender that they were hot. Singing the Elephant Love Song Medley and El Tango De Roxanne down the main street of Adelaide. I could go on :grin:

    16. What things do you appreciate most in your life at the moment?


    The fact that my parents work hard to give me the best chances in life

    17. What are your plans for xmas/ new year?


    Pool part for New Years at a friends house

    18. Are you making any new years resolutions for 2009? What do you hope will be different?

    Get a new job, less drinking, more studying

    19. How do you rate 2008 on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being the worst and 10 being the best)?

    8

    20. Will you still be on EC this time next year?

    I think so...No plans to jump ship, but you can never tell the future
     
  6. Shyvin

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    1. The biggest change in your life this year?
    Quitting my job at a pharmacy, since then I've been sitting around the house, not a productive change but a change nonetheless.

    2. What did you do over the summer?
    Worked at a pharmacy, went to one helluva awesome party at friends house. Got plastered which is something I've never done before.

    3. How were relationships with boyfriends/ girlfriends?
    Non-existent.

    4. What news story sticks in your mind the most from 2008?
    Barack Obama winning

    5. Favourite song from the year?
    "Re: Stacks" by Bon Iver from his debut album For Emma, Forever Ago

    6. Favourite artist this year?
    Shearwater (Also TV on the Radio, and Anathallo, and Bon Iver, and Fleet Foxes)

    7. Did you make any new years resolutions and if so, did you stick to them?
    No

    8. What are you most proud of personally this year (i.e.- something you have done)?
    A chapbook I made, which is basically a collection of poems I have written.

    9. Who are you most proud of (can be a famous or non- famous person)?
    My brother, whom has completely turned his life around. He is making fantastic grades and getting into gear, so so very proud of him.

    10. Did you have to learn any hard life lessons in the past 12 months?
    Not particularly.

    11. Have you had any life- changing experiences in 2008?
    No, none.

    12. Did you do anything you never thought you would do?
    Got really drunk/wasted, it really isn't something I thought I'd ever do. And most likely never will again.

    13. Did you gain any new qualifications?
    Nope.

    14. What is your happiest memory from the year?
    Don't know.

    15. What was your most stupid incident (drunk stories would be good!)?
    When I was drunk I climbed a tree when everyone told me not to. It was fun.

    16. What things do you appreciate most in your life at the moment?
    Family and friends, and my laptop.

    17. What are your plans for xmas/ new year?
    No big plans.

    18. Are you making any new years resolutions for 2009? What do you hope will be different?
    Yes, see related thread for my list.

    19. How do you rate 2008 on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being the worst and 10 being the best)?
    Seriously, a 4.

    20. Will you still be on EC this time next year?
    I hope so.
     
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  7. Starshine16

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    1. The biggest change in your life this year?

    Coming out to myself as well as to one straight friend.

    2. What did you do over the summer?

    Worked on really accepting myself.

    3. How were relationships with boyfriends/ girlfriends?

    None

    4. What news story sticks in your mind the most from 2008?

    The story about a mom who cyberbullied a 13 year old girl into comitting suicide

    5. Favourite song from the year?

    Love Story by Taylor Swift

    6. Favourite artist this year?

    Taylor Swift

    7. Did you make any new years resolutions and if so, did you stick to them?

    I made one not to let my ex fiancee piss me off anymore.No I could not stick to it because he worms his way into my life even when I try not to let him.

    8. What are you most proud of personally this year (i.e.- something you have done)?

    Come out to myself and passed my government class with a B.

    9. Who are you most proud of (can be a famous or non- famous person)?

    Myself for learning to accept myself.

    10. Did you have to learn any hard life lessons in the past 12 months?

    Yes that sometimes life has something else different planned for you than what you had expected.

    11. Have you had any life- changing experiences in 2008?

    Again coming out to myself and one other person.

    12. Did you do anything you never thought you would do?

    Tell my best friend that I am bisexual.

    13. Did you gain any new qualifications?

    My AA in Criminal Justice.

    14. What is your happiest memory from the year?

    When I mwt some great lesbian/bisexual and gay friends on the first day of classes in the fall.

    15. What was your most stupid incident (drunk stories would be good!)?

    I tripped over my dad's motorcycle and I fell on the concrete floor and busted my chin.

    16. What things do you appreciate most in your life at the moment?

    Amazing friends that I can talk to about anything.

    17. What are your plans for xmas/ new year?

    Hanging out with family for xmas and maybe going to my best friend's house for new years eve.

    18. Are you making any new years resolutions for 2009? What do you hope will be different?

    My biggest resolution is to come out to my parents this year.Preferably in the first month of the New Year.Also get back into the gym.

    19. How do you rate 2008 on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being the worst and 10 being the best)?

    6,I met some great people that helped me when I was struggling.

    20. Will you still be on EC this time next year?

    As long as it doesn't close I should be here still.
     
  8. Blaz

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    1. The biggest change in your life this year?
    One Word: University

    2. What did you do over the summer?

    a wholde lotta nothing, Hang out with friends for the last few times, relax, etc.

    3. How were relationships with boyfriends/ girlfriends?
    N/A

    4. What news story sticks in your mind the most from 2008?
    What doesn't? The whole election/voting process. . .

    5. Favourite song from the year?

    Coldplay-Viva La Vida/Metallica-The Day that never Comes

    6. Favourite artist this year?


    That released somethign this year? Coldplay

    7. Did you make any new years resolutions and if so, did you stick to them?
    Didn't this year.

    8. What are you most proud of personally this year (i.e.- something you have done)?

    Graduating with above a 4.0

    9. Who are you most proud of (can be a famous or non- famous person)?

    My best friend. . .:stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    10. Did you have to learn any hard life lessons in the past 12 months?

    Yep. . .One Word: College

    11. Have you had any life- changing experiences in 2008?
    . . .College. . .

    12. Did you do anything you never thought you would do?
    Yep. ..College
    13. Did you gain any new qualifications?
    ?

    14. What is your happiest memory from the year?
    Journey/Cheap Trick/Heart Concert

    15. What was your most stupid incident (drunk stories would be good!)?
    Spilling a weak acid on my Chem partner's clothes. . .:frowning2:

    16. What things do you appreciate most in your life at the moment?
    My family, my friends, my life. . .

    17. What are your plans for xmas/ new year?

    Celebrate with families, hang out with friends.

    18. Are you making any new years resolutions for 2009? What do you hope will be different?
    Yes. I want to be out to someone, I want to get back in running/excellent shape(5:00min mile, we will meet again!!!)

    19. How do you rate 2008 on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being the worst and 10 being the best)?an 8.3

    20. Will you still be on EC this time next year?Hopefully.
     
  9. Kryz

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    1. The biggest change in your life this year?
    Started to come out! (we were many this year)

    2. What did you do over the summer?
    Went to theater workshop at school. I loved it!

    3. How were relationships with boyfriends / girlfriends?
    GOSH, LONG. I should have ended her way earlier

    4. What news story sticks in your mind the most from 2008?
    World economic crisis begins

    5. Favourite song from the year?
    Give it 2 me

    6. Favourite artist this year?
    Madonna (Went to see her!)

    7. Did you make any new years resolutions and if so, did you stick to them?
    I did not. I think, and if I did, I can't remember.

    8. What are you most proud of personally this year (i.e.- something you have done)?
    That I started to come out, and that I aknowledged my problem of waiting for stuff to happen.

    9. Who are you most proud of (can be a famous or non- famous person)?
    Ercik my friend, who had more courage than I to come out first.

    10. Did you have to learn any hard life lessons in the past 12 months?
    That you SHOULD NOT wait for stuff to happen.

    11. Have you had any life- changing experiences in 2008?
    Theater. 'nuff said.

    12. Did you do anything you never thought you would do?
    I dunno

    13. Did you gain any new qualifications?
    I learned to use a lot of laboratory methods. I started archery and jioned theater workshop.

    14. What is your happiest memory from the year?
    Either Madonna's concert or some other concert.

    15. What was your most stupid incident (drunk stories would be good!)?
    I can't recall any (never been drunk)

    16. What things do you appreciate most in your life at the moment?
    My groups of friends

    17. What are your plans for xmas/ new year?
    Having some boring dinner with family. it happenes on 24th and will happen again on 31th.

    18. Are you making any new years resolutions for 2009? What do you hope will be different?
    Changing my lifestyle. I need it.

    19. How do you rate 2008 on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being the worst and 10 being the best)?
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    20. Will you still be on EC this time next year?
    But of course!
     
  10. SwissBoy88

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    1. The biggest change in your life this year?
    Found my dream job

    2. What did you do over the summer?
    I had to work

    3. How were relationships with boyfriends/ girlfriends?
    N/A

    4. What news story sticks in your mind the most from 2008?
    financial crisis

    5. Favourite song from the year?
    Hot 'N Cold - Katy Perry

    6. Favourite artist this year?
    Katy Perry

    7. Did you make any new years resolutions and if so, did you stick to them?
    No

    8. What are you most proud of personally this year (i.e.- something you have done)?
    I came out to my mom

    9. Who are you most proud of (can be a famous or non- famous person)?

    10. Did you have to learn any hard life lessons in the past 12 months?
    Be careful what you bitch for

    11. Have you had any life- changing experiences in 2008?
    Yes..

    12. Did you do anything you never thought you would do?
    Yes...

    13. Did you gain any new qualifications?
    Yes. I got my F/A disploma

    14. What is your happiest memory from the year?
    Knowing that I would never have to go back to that school

    15. What was your most stupid incident (drunk stories would be good!)?
    N/A

    16. What things do you appreciate most in your life at the moment?
    My friends, my family, my job

    17. What are your plans for xmas/ new year?
    Staying at home and have dinner with my family

    18. Are you making any new years resolutions for 2009? What do you hope will be different?
    N/A

    19. How do you rate 2008 on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being the worst and 10 being the best)?
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    20. Will you still be on EC this time next year?
    What a question, of course!
     
  11. Eponine

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    1. The biggest change in your life this year?
    Finally accepting once and for all that I'm gay and becoming more independent.

    2. What did you do over the summer?
    Nothing productive, really. I had/have no life.

    3. How were relationships with boyfriends/ girlfriends?
    I love someone who has told me that they love me as well, and he has given me no reason not to believe him. While I can't exactly say we're boyfriends, I'm not complaining, since it is a major improvement over previous years.

    4. What news story sticks in your mind the most from 2008?
    Stuff on the elections

    5. Favourite song from the year?
    Spaceman by the Killers

    6. Favourite artist this year?
    Hm.... probably Leona Lewis

    7. Did you make any new years resolutions and if so, did you stick to them?
    Didn't make any.

    8. What are you most proud of personally this year (i.e.- something you have done)?
    Finishing my first year of college and passing my classes of the first quarter of my second year. Seriously, my procrastination has possibly gotten worse in college, but I'm glad that when I take things seriously, I really, really, really get things done.

    9. Who are you most proud of (can be a famous or non- famous person)?
    Well, I can't think of anyone specific, but I am proud of just anyone and everyone that's moving forward in their lives despite how tough things get.

    10. Did you have to learn any hard life lessons in the past 12 months?
    I've learned that I cannot always rely on others, that I need to take care better care of myself, and to not take anything for granted.

    11. Have you had any life- changing experiences in 2008?
    I would say that accepting myself, slowly appreciating life more, and being somewhat more open has been life-changing.

    12. Did you do anything you never thought you would do?
    Yes. I joined EC. Seriously, since joining, things have been different for me. Before, I had almost decided to live my life as a lie, and to just go on with life dealing with things by myself. And now, while I'm still not out, I'm certainly much more eager to come out, and I've also expressed my feelings to a person or two.

    13. Did you gain any new qualifications?
    I don't think so...

    14. What is your happiest memory from the year?
    As lame as it is... finding out I got an A in Organic Chemistry. xD

    15. What was your most stupid incident (drunk stories would be good!)?
    Nothing really happens with me... I have said some rather stupid stuff, but they were all intentionally stupid, so yeah...

    16. What things do you appreciate most in your life at the moment?
    Loved ones, near and far, old and new.

    17. What are your plans for xmas/ new year?
    Had no plans for Christmas and I have no plans for New Year. I would need more of a life to have plans. xD

    18. Are you making any new years resolutions for 2009? What do you hope will be different?
    Nah, I don't make New Years resolutions. But I'm still going to try to just improve my health eventually, and to get a job.

    19. How do you rate 2008 on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being the worst and 10 being the best)?
    There were many personal ups and downs for me this year compared to previous years, and while it's ending at a fairly good point, overall, I would say that there were more low points. ~4

    20. Will you still be on EC this time next year?
    Well, I would think so, but I can't see into the future.
     
  12. shakerdancee

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    1. The biggest change in your life this year?
    I came out. and I lost weight. ahah
    2. What did you do over the summer?
    I took spanish. boring.
    3. How were relationships with boyfriends/ girlfriends?
    pretty good.
    4. What news story sticks in your mind the most from 2008?
    :/
    5. Favourite song from the year?
    day too soon - sia
    6. Favourite artist this year?
    eh
    7. Did you make any new years resolutions and if so, did you stick to them?
    don't remember.
    8. What are you most proud of personally this year (i.e.- something you have done)?
    I came out! :grin:
    9. Who are you most proud of (can be a famous or non- famous person)?
    eh
    10. Did you have to learn any hard life lessons in the past 12 months?
    yes! straight guys are not my territory... most of the time.
    11. Have you had any life- changing experiences in 2008?
    ahahhaha
    12. Did you do anything you never thought you would do?
    hahhaha
    13. Did you gain any new qualifications?
    yes!
    14. What is your happiest memory from the year?
    I don't know. it was just a great year.
    15. What was your most stupid incident (drunk stories would be good!)?
    I regret nothing.
    16. What things do you appreciate most in your life at the moment?
    <3
    17. What are your plans for xmas/ new year?
    nothing out of the norm.
    18. Are you making any new years resolutions for 2009? What do you hope will be different?
    no! But I will come out to my parents. soon. ahah
    19. How do you rate 2008 on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being the worst and 10 being the best)?
    10
    20. Will you still be on EC this time next year?
    yeh, sure
     
  13. Paul_UK

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    1. The biggest change in your life this year?

    Separating from Markie. We should have done so at least 2-3 years ago but both got stuck in a rut. Now it's happened though, and is amicable, it was definitely the right thing for both of us.

    2. What did you do over the summer?

    Markie and I went on holiday together in September a couple of weeks after we agreed to separate and before he moved out which wasn't great but I think it helped us with establishing the new situation between us.

    3. How were relationships with boyfriends/ girlfriends?

    Well apart from the separation there have been none. There have been several crushes though, which have been more difficult than they should.

    I have met a guy named Christian though who has become a very good friend and is now my lodger/house-mate. It's never going to become any more than good friends because of where he is at in life and what he's looking for (and the age-gap). But we are becoming quite close and we do seem to understand each other very well.

    4. What news story sticks in your mind the most from 2008?

    Woolworths going into administration. Markie works for them and this happened just a few weeks after we separated. He'll be without a job from 2nd January. He really didn't need that on top of our separation this year.

    He does have something possibly lined up which I really hope works out as it will get him a job in the area where his new boyfriend lives. Fingers crossed for him.

    5. Favourite song from the year?

    Chasing Cars by Snow Patrol, just because it's a good song!

    6. Favourite artist this year?

    None really. I don't follow current music that much and tend to get sick of things that are over-played on the radio.

    7. Did you make any new years resolutions and if so, did you stick to them?

    I don't remember. I may have said that I need to do something about me and Markie, and if I did then I succeeded.

    8. What are you most proud of personally this year (i.e.- something you have done)?

    Yet again, finally getting around to separating from Markie.

    9. Who are you most proud of (can be a famous or non- famous person)?

    Nobody that I can think of right now.

    10. Did you have to learn any hard life lessons in the past 12 months?

    I must not pre-judge people or situations without knowing all the facts. I am too prone to taking something someone says out of context and forming an opinion on just that without clearing up what is actually meant etc.

    11. Have you had any life- changing experiences in 2008?

    Well I have gone from having a partner in a tired relationship to a lodger who is a really good friend, so yes!

    12. Did you do anything you never thought you would do?

    Unless you count the separation again, which was more a case of "when" rather than "if", then no.

    13. Did you gain any new qualifications?

    No.

    14. What is your happiest memory from the year?

    It's been an up-and-down year, especially the last few months. There has been no one specific happiest moment as many of the good ones have been tinged with less-good aspects.

    15. What was your most stupid incident (drunk stories would be good!)?

    Probably doing that karaoke, which isn't really that stupid. Alcohol was involved...

    16. What things do you appreciate most in your life at the moment?

    My friends. In particular:

    Christian, newly found friend/lodger, who in some ways is just like me and understands me really well, and in other ways is an interesting contrast. I think 2009 is going to be very interesting for both of us.

    Nick who I have known for many years. He has always been on the other end of the phone when I needed to chat or vent. I hope we can see more of each other in person next year, though he is very busy currently.

    Martin who was the real encouragement for me to finally make that move in starting the separation from Markie. This was around the same time as he came out to his parents. We both encouraged each other and were both there for each other when dealing with the reactions and emotions following them. And I have never actually met him, this is all MSN and texts!

    17. What are your plans for xmas/ new year?

    Christmas I spent with my mum, sister and sister's kids. New Year will probably be spent at our local gay pub.

    18. Are you making any new years resolutions for 2009? What do you hope will be different?

    No resolutions. I really want to love again and I hope that will happen, but I obviously don't know.

    19. How do you rate 2008 on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being the worst and 10 being the best)?

    It's been an interesting year. A lot has changed in my life, most of it for the best. Though there have certainly been some ups and downs. There is financial worries too, with the current global situation and whether I will be able to keep paying the mortgage and remain solvent.

    Overall I am going to give it 7/10.

    20. Will you still be on EC this time next year?

    Yes (assuming it's still here).
     
  14. Zachary825

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    Im not even answering all them; i picked 1 because my dad died :[
     
  15. Janvier

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    1. The biggest change in your life this year?
    All the great people I met, including family and boyfriends

    2. What did you do over the summer?
    Holidays in England as always but with my sisters bf this time, great fun :grin:

    3. How were relationships with boyfriends/ girlfriends?
    Very few and very short but I went out with my 1st bf this year, so that's always good :slight_smile:

    4. What news story sticks in your mind the most from 2008?
    The whole economic crisis and the US elections.

    5. Favorite song from the year?
    Mariah Carey - For the Record

    6. Favorite artist this year?
    Narkotek/Mariah Carey

    7. Did you make any new years resolutions and if so, did you stick to them?
    Yep, stop smoking and start working out until the smoking part got too hard (100% of my friends are heavy smokers) and working out got impossible due to Accutane.

    8. What are you most proud of personally this year (i.e.- something you have done)?
    All the party's we started and music production

    9. Who are you most proud of (can be a famous or non- famous person)?
    My big sister and her multi-million € company

    10. Did you have to learn any hard life lessons in the past 12 months?
    Yep, don't let drugged homeless people into your home or young street thugs.
    Be careful in the street when you walk hand in hand with a bf.

    11. Have you had any life- changing experiences in 2008?
    Meeting my big sister for the 1st time in years, opening a whole world of possibility's.
    Meeting all the other great people this year, EC members, my new DJ friends, ex boyfriends.

    12. Did you do anything you never thought you would do?
    Yes but I forgot :icon_redf

    13. Did you gain any new qualifications?
    Not really but I've learned a lot this year.

    14. What is your happiest memory from the year?
    March was awesome !! Met my 1st bf, met my big sister, met a great EC member and partied all night with him on my 18th birthday (!)

    15. What was your most stupid incident (drunk stories would be good!)?
    Not sure, I don't often get into stupid situations, there is one but it's VERY embarrassing and NO I will never, EVER talk about it on this forum.

    16. What things do you appreciate most in your life at the moment?
    The fact that I'm a very lucky person and have nothing to complain about, great family, great friends, money, loads of happy times and adventures :grin:

    17. What are your plans for xmas/ new year?
    This year? Well nothing, I'm stuck in a small old people's village in England, but I'll be meeting some great people soon :icon_wink

    18. Are you making any new years resolutions for 2009? What do you hope will be different?
    Same as last year basically, stop smoking, start working out again, eat healthier, stop being obsessed with finding a bf; focus on finding a school and producing more music.

    19. How do you rate 2008 on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being the worst and 10 being the best)?
    10.
    2008 has def been the best year in my life so far :grin:

    20. Will you still be on EC this time next year?
    Who knows..
    I've deleted my account once.. (I used to be JSG) Let's hope I'm still here :slight_smile:
     
  16. summersforecast

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    1. The biggest change in your life this year?
    I came out online!
    2. What did you do over the summer?
    chilled w/ my besties
    3. How were relationships with boyfriends/ girlfriends?
    none don't i wish though
    4. What news story sticks in your mind the most from 2008?
    kinda personal but it involves my crush a farisweel and a "kiss" long story
    5. Favourite song from the year?
    idk when it came out but "I'm yours" - jason Miraz
    6. Favourite artist this year?
    myself
    7. Did you make any new years resolutions and if so, did you stick to them?
    ya I got an account on EC!
    8. What are you most proud of personally this year (i.e.- something you have done)?
    I came out to my Bff
    9. Who are you most proud of (can be a famous or non- famous person)?
    I am proud of every single person on EC that can speak freely about their sexuality and opinions
    10. Did you have to learn any hard life lessons in the past 12 months? I learned not to worry about things that are out of my control
    11. Have you had any life- changing experiences in 2008? I've said this like a billion times but I came out to my Bff

    12. Did you do anything you never thought you would do? Ya I spent to much money

    13. Did you gain any new qualifications? I made high honor role!

    14. What is your happiest memory from the year? field days(carnival)

    15. What was your most stupid incident (drunk stories would be good!)? I don't drink excessivly but really didn't have any major mistakes

    16. What things do you appreciate most in your life at the moment? EC

    17. What are your plans for xmas/ new year? spending it w/ my homophoic family

    18. Are you making any new years resolutions for 2009? What do you hope will be different? hopefully I'll come out

    19. How do you rate 2008 on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being the worst and 10 being the best)? 10!

    20. Will you still be on EC this time next year? hell ya!
     
  17. HighintheClouds

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    1. The biggest change in your life this year?
    Me accepting myself as being who I am.

    2. What did you do over the summer?
    Do lots of debate training. And I mean LOTS. It was TIRING.

    3. How were relationships with boyfriends/ girlfriends?
    Going fine and dandy so far. And he’s a boyfriend.

    4. What news story sticks in your mind the most from 2008?
    The only one I can think of is Obama winning the presidency (although I kinda blame this on reading Martin’s reply. Stupid Martin.:grin:)

    5. Favourite song from the year?

    Disturbia!!!!

    6. Favourite artist this year?
    Goldfrapp perhaps.. And maybe Rihanna, P!nk or Bowling for Soup

    7. Did you make any new years resolutions and if so, did you stick to them?
    One of my last year’s new years resolutions was to stick to my new year’s resolution. And truth be told… I can’t remember the rest. Whoopsie.. lol

    8. What are you most proud of personally this year (i.e.- something you have done)?
    Coming out to myself and accepting myself and not getting myself killed by actually meeting people from over the net.

    9. Who are you most proud of (can be a famous or non- famous person)?
    My friend who put great effort into his final exams last year and came off with fantastic results.

    10. Did you have to learn any hard life lessons in the past 12 months?

    Oh yes… Oh so so soooo yes…

    11. Have you had any life- changing experiences in 2008?
    See above. And also question number 1.

    12. Did you do anything you never thought you would do?
    Well.. I actually met people from over the net, and I almost got myself into sex with a totally random dude, so that counts as a yes. A big yes.

    13. Did you gain any new qualifications?
    Let’s see… I’m now able to get into Grade 12. Yay me!

    14. What is your happiest memory from the year?

    Being sure of myself and my sexuality.

    15. What was your most stupid incident (drunk stories would be good!)?
    Well… Being drunk… And overseas with a few friends… I was on the bed and we were talking crap (I was talking at the top of my voice apparently) while my other (sober) friend was trying his best to sleep (he got mad at me the next day). And you know… I was supposed to be one of the people teaching a group of primary school kids in the village school the next day. The best part is that I then reached down into my pants and started playing about, while my other drunk friend was just in shock.
    He now uses that as a nice story to tell other people.. D’oh…

    16. What things do you appreciate most in your life at the moment?
    My sureness in myself (I know I’m repetitive..)
    The fact that my boyfriend is a wonderful guy
    The fact that I have great friends
    The fact that I have a caring family

    17. What are your plans for xmas/ new year?

    I don’t know really.. Maybe my family will be spending it overseas…

    18. Are you making any new years resolutions for 2009? What do you hope will be different?
    1. TO GET FIT!!!!!!
    2. To be able to control myself better.
    3. To be able to manage my time well.
    4. TO STICK TO MY RESOLUTIONS!
    I hope that I’ll be able to do well in my studies…

    19. How do you rate 2008 on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being the worst and 10 being the best)?
    I gave it a 9 on the poll, but now I actually think that it should be more of a 7 or and 8 really.. There were bad moments, and those were horrible, but the great moments were mindblowingly amazing.

    20. Will you still be on EC this time next year?

    Hopefully so. It’s this place which I have to thank so much… For helping me with.. well… me…
     
  18. HighintheClouds

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    Oh, and did everyone who posted here actually read all of the other answers before theirs? I'm doing so now.. Haha.
     
  19. Martin

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    Yep, including you calling me stupid... :wink: :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
  20. Paul_UK

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    No, I posted mine first then read the others afterwards. I didn't want my thoughts to be distracted by other people's answers.