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Your stories about buying dresses and panties in stores

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by Richelle1, Aug 2, 2021.

  1. Richelle1

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    Hi I am new to this and i have bought panties on line but never in a store. Finally, the other night I was in Target and walked down the isle and quickly grabbed some and tossed them in my cart. I then went through the self check out. But when i got into the car i noticed they were too small and i would never take them back. Do any of you go women's clothes shopping and were you embarrased?
     
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    I have had a few times , got my heart racing, took it as a challenge…

    Bought a thong when I was about 16 ,from a lingerie store , pantyhose /stockings, bra several times all acting like it was for my “girlfriend “…

    nearly broke down buying shoes several times from a general store like Ross but that was too obvious, got orties about being seen etc… but I did go to a more “specialized “ store a few times and bought high heels that I tried on the spot. Although it was somewhat a crossdressing boutique one of the lady was kinda making fun at me …but I’m not really a typical profile I guess
     
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    Well, anymore it is trivial since to anyone observing me I am simply an older cis woman.

    The first few times though it was very nerve wracking. I found though that when shopping for clothes, makeup etc, no one cared and after a few times I started to relax about it.
     
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    When i go to an adult store to buy toys it was exciting at first. I feel like i am going into rob a bank. I want to buy some panties at Victoria Secrate.
     
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    The other thing is to buy it on Amazon but you have to be at home when the package arrives so no other family members intercept it. I bought some "lady pills" and they showed up two days sooner than promised. Someone in the family opened it and set it on the counter. Nobody ever said anything and i am not out to them. Close call!
     
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    Today I went to a botique and bought some panties. they were 5 for 20.00. The girls that worked there were very nice and didn't treat me indifferently. It felt nice taking my time looking through the selection and not feeling like i was being judged by anyone.
     
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    There is many reason why would you buy panties. There are actually people who are personal shoppers or you could buy them for a family member. I just usually make a face, like I am trying to buy them someone else, beside myself. I also keep a measuring tape with me, if I need to figure out, without trying it on, if it fits me, if I don’t feel comfortable trying it on in the store. I don’t like buying clothes online, since I can’t touch the fabric and see if it would actually fit me.
     
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    I usually go to men section though and usually there are clothes there, that fit me better, same with shoes. I guess it’s a bit easier for me.
     
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    I bought a few cute dresses from a thrift store in Washington. The old hippy lady thought it was cool.