Your 2019 Goals

Yay! I'm happy for you

 

My goals are the exact same as yours. Looking forward to following your progress. Good luck!

 

I've never been very enthusiastic about new year's resolutions, because if something is important enough for a resolution, there's no need to wait for the new year. But it's a good time to reflect, and all the things people have written here are inspiring. I don't have any goals, rather a need to be going in a good direction. So, I'll let my resolution be to stay on the Path, creating happiness, joy, and meaningful connections wherever I can.

 

This is a great idea! I definitely appreciate people and don't tell them. But I can't imagine actually sending these notes. It would be so weird. Trying to imagine if someone gave me an appreciation note -- I'd probably think they were nuts or trying to flirt with me in some very awkward fashion.

Maybe if I prefaced it with some kind of disclaimer about why I'm sending the note. And/or give them some idea of how or if to respond. It almost feels like fishing for a compliment, like "I said something nice about you, now your turn."

 

Sounds like you could start a very positive movement with that Maybe a pay it forward kind of thing

 

Apart from trying to get my novel published and to continue working on my next I aim to start HRT this year. I'm also looking at building my confidence with who I want to be and maybe moving into doing drag. To do that I need to concentrate on some of my looks (which I'm uncomfortable with) and definitely get better at doing my own make up.

 

@nerdbrain , you are so right! it feels awkward and strange at first. But the few times I tried it, people really seemed to appreciate it. It just needs to be be sincere. I'd send a message and say something like, "I was just thinking about when you said <something>, and I just wanted to say thanks, because that turned out to be really helpful for me". I think at first it feels awkward at first just because it's something we're not in the habit of doing.

 

My 2019 Goals:
1. to be fully out
2. to be actively dating

I would like to have a boyfriend but I think it's important to date a little first and have a couple of sexual experiences.

 

I don't know what is my goal in 2019. I would like to make a list of it, I really worry about my life.
But the number one is my wife understand that I am a gay and I need space to be myself.
Now I am really frustrated with my life and wife.

 

Work on my mental health and stress levels.

 

I wish more countries can legalize gay marriage.People can be kind to one another.Less evil people in the world and more kind people in the world.I wish one day we can all be equal.