my name is Ryder and im from canada, i am Pansexual, Polyamorous and Agender. i am in a loving relationship with my girlfriend, who is also pan and poly. i am out to almost everyone up to my parents but not the rest of my family, as they are all Christians soooooo. i am having a relatively hard time with people respecting and using my pronouns (they/them). even though my parents, and friends know i identify as genderless people still seem to keep calling me female, and it especially hurts because my parents know about my gender identity, they still refer to me as female.