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WTF is my sexuality?!

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by MatthewJS, Feb 16, 2015.

  1. MatthewJS

    Full Member

    Jul 2, 2012
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    OK, I know most of you are going to say "Labels don't matter, don't stress about it" and yada yada yada. Personally, I like labels because they make me feel unique. But everyone has their own opinions on labels. Some like them, others don't, some don't fucking care.

    Okay, first, I thought I was gay in 4th grade all the way through 6th. Then, I had a crush on a girl in 6th and another crush on a girl in 7th. Those two years, I thought I was bisexual. Then, I thought I was completely gay again in 8th because I only had crushes on boys. Same way in 9th grade. Then, when summer came around, I started to like my female friend (she obviously didn't care) and still kinda do, but she's with someone (that asshole that broke my heart). Then I came to a conclusion I was Biromantic Homosexual. Recently, like, few months ago, I realized I am PANromantic Homosexual. I thought "Yeah, this is who I am" Then I remembered I would ONLY have sex with a female is if my feelings are strong for her and vice versa. BUT I do NOT get aroused by females. yes, that is very fucking confusing.

    To make this simple on how I thought about my sexuality:
    4th - 6th: Gay
    6th - 7th: Bisexual
    8th - 9th: Gay
    Summer of 2014 to now: Bi/Panromantic homosexual.
    Now (again): WHAT THE FUCK IS IT NOW!

    Ok, I hope my information is clear enough.

    Now i have 2 questions:
    1. What is my sexuality
    2. Is my sexuality fluid?

    PLEASE FUCKING :help: ME! :bang:
  2. NingyoBroken

    NingyoBroken Guest

    Labels do NOT make you unique. They group you with other people, and that is not uniqueness.