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Would you say your sexual desires are as strong as your need of food?

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  1. truebraethic

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    I'd say no to your initial question. But maybe it's similar to a desire for delicious food, in that it's not necessary, but would you be willing to go your whole life (or even a year) without delicious food? Would you be frustrated if you didn't get to have any?
     
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    It depends on the individual moment in which you ask me this question. If I'm really horny and have no appetite, then of course sex (masturbation for me) is more important. But if I'm not thinking about sex and I'm so hungry I could eat a horse, then food is more important. It sounds very logical to choose food, and I would agree that it is the most important of the two, but if need sexual release, then no amount of food can make up for the loss of it.
     
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    Nope, my desire for food is greater.
     
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    Not at all. I have such an absent sex drive I might be ace. Couldn't care less about living the remainder of my life a virgin.
     
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    I have infrequent bouts where eating just seems so troublesome. Like, completely not worth the effort.

    That's my attitude towards sex just about always.

    So, sometimes, yes, my sexual desires match my food cravings.
     
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    I have occasional craving for sex, as one would crave for chocolate. In fact, I want to bath in chocolate fountain right now.
     
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    Well... we're strongly programmed with a biological need for food, as without it, we'll die. There are definitely desirable biochemical benefits to orgasm, but we can go for years without orgasm without causing any major health issues. So in that way, food is a lot more important, biologically, than sex.

    It's also useful to understand that the normal range of sex drive is all over the map. There are people who are at the low end of the spectrum and rarely masturbate and don't have a strong desire for sex. And there are people who masturbate multiple times a day and have sex (if they can) several times a day. Both are within the normal range of a heterosexual or homosexual or bisexual person.

    There are other factors that can affect sex drive. Some people are simply "late bloomers" who don't start to experience strong sexual arousal or desire until their late teens or early 20s. And, of course, medication, family-of-origin issues, and other factors can impact our relationship to sex as well.
     
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    Yikes! Mom calls me a walking hormone... I've only recently (last 6 months) been in a sexual relationship and it's quite equal... even when I didn't have a ....um... gf it was still equal. I think the word is hypersexual...
     
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    Both them them for me is very very low. I really only eat because I know I have to...
     
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    Oh my gosh food over sex annnyyy day! I have a lower sex drive too compared to most people so you're not alone :grin:
     
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    I have a sex drive stronger than a maddened bull, but my hunger can kick its butt any day
     
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    Need for food=need for sex=0

    So...yeah.

    As in, I forget to eat so often it might as well be considered that I have no need for food (no self-harm intended, I just really forget to eat). But otherwise food>>sex.
     
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    Food is important, food is life, sex is awkward and can wait.
     
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    I know I really should say food.. But I've been really horny for an ungodly amount of time so I just don't know right now :eek:
     
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    I'm not asexual but I have a very low sex drive and don't really have much desire for sex or even for a relationship at the moment.
     
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    Food, obvi. Do most 14 year olds have a sex drive? *shrug*. Do I have a sex drive? Not really.
     
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    Although it seems entirely impractical I would seriously say I think about and desire sex way more. I can really forget about eating if I'm doing something that I'm enjoying enough... I think as KarynLyn said, I'm a bit hypersexual haha. Of course... this a total first world problem - if I was actually regularly properly hungry I would definitely be thinking differently.
     
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