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Would you say your sexual desires are as strong as your need of food?

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  1. Rainsworth

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    I always had a somehow weak sex drive compared to average people, i think about sex a lot, but that may be due to the fact that i'm a virgin and sex is still a mystery to me, and the fact that i'm a 18 years old dude who didn't get laid at all, it's like a bottled up need that i haven't fill yet. i rarely ever jerk off, but i watch porn often, i don't check out men that much in public, and i don't find most people attractive -except in days were i'm extremely horny, not so often-

    When i see people talk about their need of sex, or those overly-sexual comments people post to strangers on social media, i begin to wonder just how strong are sexual desires for the average male/female. i feel like more asexuals would relate to me more than sexuals, which is odd cause i'm definitely not an asexual.
     
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    It'll get worse when sex is no mistery
     
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    My sex drive is nonexistent, but I love food, so nope. :roflmao:
     
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    :thumbsup: Same. Sex drive is all but nonexistent and I'm a major foodie. So they're not even close for me.
     
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    They're actually quite close for me. Low sex drive, low desire for food.

    For the record, I think someone can be sexual but not need sex. Being able to experience sexual attraction does not make one naturally horny or desire sex all the time, but then again, that depends on your definition of sexual and asexual.
     
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    Seeing as how I'm a sex-repulsed asexual... No. Food is way, way, waaaayy more important than sex :lol:
     
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    Two things generally happen with topics around sex or sexuality.

    1) We aren't allowed to talk about it because its seems as rude, taboo or crude, so people go years without knowing how they compare to friends, parents, strangers, etc. This allows people to create misinformation

    2) Even with the stigma about sex, there is pressure in society to act a certain way about sex. Some guys will fake just how sexual they are because that's what they think they are supposed to do. Just like women will downplay just how sexual they are or feel.

    Just keep that in mind whenever you try and compare yourself to other. And keep talking about it openly. the more you talk about it, the less it haunts you.
     
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    I love food.. I would honestly eat all day every day if I was guaranteed not to gain weight.

    Sex is great too.. but I can always masturbate. OTOH, food is required for sustenance. So, food is probably more important.

    However, if you say you can give up food without succumbing to starvation, it's honestly a tough call. Being asked this question makes me feel like Joey Tribiani.

    Is men on bread an acceptable answer?
     
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    FOOD. I can live without sex.
     
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    Uh pretty sure food>>sex, at least for me.
     
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    Food>Sex.

    I can live without sex.

    But not food.
     
    #11 mychemromance99, Feb 24, 2016
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    Uuuuh, if someone's desire for sex is equitable to their need for sustenance, I'm preeeetty sure they're a sex addict.
     
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    Im also wondering how was it feel with someone on bed and doing some intimate activities or maybe am just still a virgin or what, but I would rather full my tummy than to fulfill my libido, I would experience that thing on the right time tho
     
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    No. Just look at my orientation.
     
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    Yes, I'd say they are definitely equal. I couldn't live without either. A dog trainer once told me that dogs brains only release happy hormones for two reasons -food and sex- and I was just like 'I am all dog'.
     
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    Exactly the same here, friend. :roflmao:
     
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    Nope. Sex is weird to me. The very idea is just... not appealing at all. I don't get it.
     
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    The drive is very much equal, and part of my make-up as a mammal. I definitely have a need to express myself, sexually, or I become tense, unproductive, less creative and depressed. The more I have a constantly evolving, fun sex life, the happier and more productive I seem to become; it's as if I'm conducting some universal energy.
     
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    Hah, you say that like it's a contest! :wink:

    It's food.
     
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    No they're not equal. I don't really know how to answer this question, to be honest.
     
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