Would you have a one-night stand?

Yep, nothing wrong with casual sex.

 

If the two or more people involved are of appropriate age and all that jazz, protection and consent were practiced then why not?
Obviously it's not for everyone but neither is any outlook on sex.

 

Are you willing to have a one-night stand just because of the sexual desire?
No, I'm a slut.

I have two night stands in my home. I know, I'm a terrible person th-- oh, you mean...

I'm not opposed to the idea. If that's what you want to do, so be it. As for me, I doubt I could even consider going too intimately far without some "bonding", a.k.a. getting to know you. But how long that getting-to-know-you period lasts, differs for everybody.

The best way to put it:

I'm not looking for it, but if the time/place/mood is right, it could be considered.

Do you think that having that kind of sex occasionally is a sin and do you think it's "bitchy"?
I would assume what makes anything "sinful" is the intent. If your intent is to degrade and violate somebody... that's bad. Call it a sin or call it fucked up, it just isn't appreciated.

The use of the word "bitchy", here, amuses me.

I don't think this is your intention, but the word "bitchy", or 'bitch', is generally associated with women. There seems to be an implication, here, that this is a feminine-like thing to engage in, which is bizarre considering, men are often encouraged and proud of their sexual endeavors.

But I'm not really in the mood to drive the conversation that direction... though I did want to acknowledge this.

If you're being sensible and responsible, do you. If you decide to prance around and boast of your bedroom score, well, you do that -- but I guarantee the quality of people you sleep with, is going to decline.

Be considerate, but have fun, use common fuckin' sense and enjoy life. It's often merciless or unfair, so take advantage of these few moments to actually live enjoyably.

 

No.

 

One night stand implies that you just met the person. I wouldn't have any sexual desire for someone I just met/barely even know. So no, I would not have a one night stand. Worrying about sins is not something I concern myself with and I don't know how sex in general would be "bitchy".

 

How about a one-day stand? I'm pretty nocturnal, if I do it in the night I'm just going to be awake and bored afterwards :lol:



Seriously: I don't think so. I'm usually not attracted enough to someone I don't know very well that I would consider sleeping with them. Looks and first impressions only do so much, I want to see how that person operates (and no, I'm not talking about having sex with a surgeon!). In order to have that level of attraction it would take a while, and it seems unlikely that a one-night stand would be suitable once I'd gotten to that stage. There's also the question of trust and safety to consider.

I sometimes wonder if my being sexually inexperienced influences my view on this, seeing as obviously jumping into bed with someone and just going for it is usually something you do when you know what it is you're actually doing. Perhaps I would think of sex as not such a big deal had it become something I was used to by now. But then on the other hand, I think the very fact I've gotten to this age without being with anyone is a pretty strong indicator that I require someone I really connect with. Because orientation aside, if I had really wanted I could have probably just gone and had casual sex by now, either as a one-night or short term thing, but I find that idea completely unappealing.


I don't think there's anything wrong with it so long as both parties are on the same page about what to expect. And by that I mean it should be verbally clarified in advance, not that one can simply assume that the other person is ok with the arrangement simply because they are willing to have sex.

 

Before I would have said no way, now that I'm getting more sexually frustrated I'd probably have one. I rarely feel sexually attracted to people, so that makes one night stands hard.

 

Probably if I was horny enough and was sex deprived. But I would REALLY have to be horny to do it, because I know for a fact I won't be someone who likes alcohol so I wouldn't be having one-night stands due to drinking. I had wine at a wedding and it was horrible (This was wedding wine, so it was fancy and supposedly really good) the only alcoholic beverage I will like are probably margaritas or anything with fruit in it.

That being said, I won't be going to bars, which means I would rarely have the opportunity of a one-night stand. TBH I think I would have a friends with benefits instead of one-night stands.