Would you have a one-night stand?

All things considered I wouldn't rule out the possibility, but I probably wouldn't. I get feelings during sex.. Not something I want for someone who's gonna leave the next morning.

 

This comment is golden!:eusa_clap
Heh! no wonder I can't get a relationship. People think commitment is fun:eusa_doh:

 

Are you willing to have a one-night stand just because of the sexual desire?
Nope, its absolutely something I would not do.


Do you think that having that kind of sex occasionally is a sin and do you think it's "bitchy"?
No has nothing to do with whether or not its a sin, but rather the fact that....
* I deff have zero interest in random-hookups/one-night stands, etc ..
* Even for something like kissing or cuddling, I'd need to have gotten to know the person first.

 

I don't think I would. I'm more the kind of person who needs an emotional connection with a person first.

I don't think it's a sin or bitchy. I mean if you're being a bitch about it...

 

I have on numerous occasions but not for a long time (my partner and I have been together for 17 years now). I actually never had a bad experience and actually had a lot of really wonderful experiences. Often we would stay up for hours after talking. I remember a couple guys who sent me flowers the next day--over the top but nice. I remember one guy pulling out the play he was working on to show me. I remember laying around the next day with one guy reading his comic book collection. I think of padding out to the kitchen to get ice cream or make omelets together, giggling and shushing each other trying not to wake up someone's roommates. I remember I actually became quite good friends with several guys I met that way--the most important actually being my partner. We have occasionally referred to our meeting as a one night stand gone terribly awry--I went home with him the night we met and now we've been together for seventeen wonderful years.

 

Probably not. I don't judge anyone who does one night stands, but it's just not for me. I'd feel too uncomfortable.

 

Right now definitely not, in the future possibly. Not planned or anything but if I meet somebody while I'm out and I'm feeling it then who knows.

 

I don't know.

 

I want to say yes, but I have a feeling I'd regret it later.

 

I don't think it's a sin and I don't think it's wrong, I'm okay with whatever makes other people happy (as long as no one gets hurt etc).

But I'm not turned on by it myself. I want to have some kind of bound and feelings to the person. The feelings don't have to be love, but I have to know and like the person!

 

Same for me, on both sentences.

 

I'm impulsive, if it was something that I would want in that moment, I would.

I don't think of it as a sin...

 

In the future, very possibly yes. I'm not against it but I want something more serious first. Then, who knows what'll happen but I'm not one to say it's wrong. Hell, I would probably be that person who's calling their friends right the next morning: "You won't believe how hot he/she was!" "who?" "the person I hooked up with last night!" ......yeah, I can see myself having that conversation.

 

I wouldn't.

 

maybe.

 

I'd like to say yes.

 

Nope, and I have no desire to do so. Sex is just too feely for me, and doing it with someone who I'm not in love with would feel violating.

 

I'd probably be willing. As long as it's safe and consensual and you're not cheating on anyone by doing it, I don't really see a problem with one-night stands.

 

I have. Honestly I think sex is better after a few times because you get to know the person and what really turns them on.

As far as it being a sin, I don't believe in the concept. I do believe it's preferable if you practice safe sex. Sex in and of itself isn't good or bad, it's just an activity adults engage in and it holds rewards & consequences like any other activity.

 

As long as everything is safe & consensual, I have no problem with others doing it. As for me, yes, I had hookups in the past. Was I intending for them to just be that? No. I went into them as a date (usually started out with a meal). I never was good at casually dating. I didn't necessarily require a full on relationship. Certainly didn't have to be in love to be intimate. Just wasn't planning on it to be an encounter only.