Would you feel insulted if...

I wouldn't be offended but this kinda relationship won't last long. Being outside and not being able to kiss or hug him, or even hold his hand - that's unbearable and eventually I'd tell him to call me again when he comes out to his parents and/or to the people he's afraid they might see him with me.

 

Yes, I wouldn't put up with any kind of secrecy.

 

not at all, id count myself lucky id found someone that likes me and so stick it out till they felt comfortable with being open about it

 

I'd hope they'd change their mind, because they're being ridiculous.

 

If you're afraid to hang out with me in public, then we're not really friends. I can't judge them for how they live their lives because I don't want anyone doing the same to me but if I cause someone shame then how good is that person for me and just how toxic is that person even if in all other aspects they seem so nice? I'd say just toxic enough not to be a healthy relationship.

 

I'd be a little insulted, but at the same time I understand. A lot of shitty things people do is because of their own fears and difficulty dealing with things and not even about you.

 

Depends on the Circumstances

If they were just paranoid : No, I would try and work them out of that paranoia.

If they had an actual reason to be afraid of being outed: I would simply accept the fact and understand.

 

With how young I am, and the fact that I am in Texas, I wouldn't blame them. I actually know a few people who if they were out they'd get kicked out of their home.

 

I wouldn't be insulted, but I'd refuse. You either wanna hang out with me or not, you don't get to put conditions on who we are seen by

 

I'd be mad at them but I don't think I'd cut ties with them. Everyone has their own reasons for staying in the closet and if coming out puts their safety or living situation in danger then I'd understand why they'd be so paranoid about it.