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Would you date someone who was still in the closet?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Blinko, Apr 20, 2017.

  1. tinybear

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    Yes, I would!
     
  2. Blinko

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    Not everyone that is in the closet is ashamed. In fact I would not down it to shame but rather the context and actually reasonable factors
     
  3. Eldrher

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    I would prefer to date someone who's out, because its less stressful for both people.
     
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    I'm not much for PDA so I wouldn't mind if they weren't out at school. However, Them not being out to their parents or me having to hide the relationship from my parents would be a problem for me.
     
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    It's not that a care too much, I would just prefer someone who is out of the closet
     
  6. thatcelloguy

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    I'd be okay with it as long as they weren't paranoid, or acting homophobic to hide their sexuality/gender.
     
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    Yes I would.
     
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    I can't say I have much experience in the matter, but I probably wouldn't. In a way, I'm still in the closet and I wouldn't date myself either.
     
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    Already have, thou it ended at the point where his dad read his msg's and blew up, probably wouldn't do it again
     
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    Yes, but only if he wasn't that close to his family, otherwise it would be quite stressful.