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Would you consider yourself relationship material?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by HerRainbow, May 28, 2017.

  1. Lazuri

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    These days? Oh yes. I'm a hopeless romantic so another hopeless romantic would absolutely love me.
     
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    Unfortunately no. The only love I've received was from my over-caring, over-sensitive, intrusive mother. She's doing it for the right reasons, but overdoing it. Whenever I really like someone, I turn into a real possessive demon. I just don't know any other way to show love to someone.

    However I am somewhat spontaneous and will truly care/ worry for someone.
     
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    Puh-leaseeee.
     
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    I don't think I am, but my bf has put up with me for 3 years so I must be doing something right
     
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    Right now....no. I have too many things I feel I have to take care of first. Appearance wise, I need to get dental work done. I want to get in a better spot financially. I work 60+hard/week as a single father of 3, so I don't really have the time or energy to even try. My world is my kids. Also I'm painfully shy, an introvert, and fairly untrusting of people. Kinda makes it hard to get close to anybody.
    I hope to one day resolve these issues because I know I *could* be a very good partner.
    Of course with kids, I also really have to be mindful of what sort of guy(s) I'd be bringing into their lives.
     
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    If you went by my beliefs alone regarding relationships (monogamous / love / long-term / etc) ... then yes.

    Looks wize, I consider my self 'just average/nothing special' ... I guess that's neither a yes or no?

    But then you have all the rest of me/how I am/etc , which makes me unfriendable/unloveable ... so that is not only a 'no', but an 'absolutely not' (which should also be bold text all caps, and underlined)
     
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    I think so - - it's the only way I can accept how guys think of me haha.

    Truly, though, I look at myself as husband material. I'm pretty cute, I have a good job, I am caring/smart...but as we all know, most gays don't care one bit about that!
     
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    Honestly I don't know. I can be loving and caring to those special to me but I'm too much of an introvert.
     
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    Literal same. I end up secluding myself sooner or later
     
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    Absolutely not. I'm just hoping for a pretty girl to take one for the team and agree to date me ;-;
     
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    Hm, I sure hope so. I'm pretty introverted and shy but I think I can be pretty sweet once you get to know me.
     
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    Nope. I would be a terrible significant other.
     
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    I guess so since my partner is still married to me.
     
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    I do and I don't lol. If I was in a better state of mind, I would be relationship material. With how I am lately though, I would say that I need to get to a healthier place in my life, in my mind, in my emotions, and in my body before I feel comfortable with being in a relationship. It's not fair for me to date someone who's ready to commit to a relationship while I'm over here being damaged by my own psyche lol.
     
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    Not in the slightest, I'm too distant and pessimistic, and to a large degree still recovering from my spiteful former self. Not to mention my appearance to top it off...

    I have plans to change that, all of it, but I suppose that will take time and a fresh start.
     
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    HahahahahahahahahahahaNO.
     
  17. *breaks into song

    Well today I'm feeling: HELL TO THE NO, TO THE NO NO NO! I have acne, I can't keep a conversation going for my life, I don't understand the unwritten social rules at all, and since I'm pre T and pre everything, my voice sounds like a twelve year old kid on mine craft with a fidget spinner and each day I'm starting to look more like a slowly dying lesbian. WHAT GUY WOULD DATE ME?!?!

    On most days I would answer a yes, I am just dysphoric af right now, I'm having a bad hair day which my parents had to not so subtly remind me, I'm running out of clean guys clothes, so I have to resort to stuff that doesn't even fit me anymore and I am very slowly starting to look like a dying lesbian, especially today. I usually look okay.
     
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    Lol, not at all. I'm too distant, reserved. No appearance to make up for my lack in personality either.
     
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    I'd think I am. I'm decent looking, I guess? I'm very reserved and cold when others first meet me but once you get to know me I'm more kind and outgoing. Oh and also I tend to spam with a lot of affection lmao
     
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    I'll date when I find someone who doesn't mind that I'm a sexually confused transgender fanboy. Otherwise, this shits more real than kraft mayo.