Would it be weird to tell my bi friend I’ve wished I could kiss her?

I wouldn't be weirded out if the friend wasn't too forceful. I have a friend I've wanted to kiss too, who's also bi, but I know it will never happen. I know they're not into me the way I'm into them already.

If you're prepared for rejection, as harsh as that sounds, then go for it. Best case scenario she says yes, worse case she says no. But it's still possible to maintain a friendship even after awkward moments happen when there's feelings involved. It's not always easy, but it's possible.

But at the end of the day, the choice is yours.

 

Trust me there is an obvious difference between a manipulative and pushy person who won't take no for an answer, and someone who is genuinely into someone else and just wants to take a chance.

You know which one of those you are.

 

It might be easier to say than telling her how you feel about her. Like an ice breaker but with more implications. You can easily explain it away as you just being curious, but it could definitely open some doors, or close them.

 

You have loving feelings for someone which is supposed to be a wonderful thing, yet it's something we worry about. I wish we could tell anyone about positive feelings like that and the response would be that's so sweet and yes, or that's so sweet but I'm not feeling the same and that's okay. Why does this attraction and loving feelings have to be so complicated, the world needs more peace and love!

 

i don’t think it matters how old you are. I think that’s a good way to start the conversation because it can start off generic like, what is it like to kiss a girl and then depending on her response perhaps you can throw in wondering about kissing her. If you are really lucky she will offer you the chance to find out what it is like to kiss a girl.

 

When are you next going to see her?

 

ok well fingers crossed you can set something up soon.