Hi will anyone embark on a lesbian/gay relationship with a woman with small kids? (aged between 3-6)- if she had 3 small kids ? What would u see as challenges ? My girlfriend has been brave enough to take the plunge but i do feel bad for her- she has to compromise around ballet lessons, karate lessons, trips to kids related places, can’t go out until kids are asleep...don’t say u are mummy’s girlfriend as grandparents are very homophobic and kids might tell them...sorry have to cancel our date as middle child has a temperature...etc will anyone be able to handle this? i love my girlfriend but when you have three small dependants and a career - she is always the one compromising and i feel guilt all the time
