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Will I need to come out...again?

Discussion in 'LGBT Later in Life' started by Lesbee, Feb 19, 2021.

  1. silverhalo

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    Ok so never because you wanted it as such just because you felt you should or you wanted to feel the closeness.
    Have you ever been intimate with a woman?
     
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    Yes I have had a variety of experiences. I never had the opportunity to be with a woman I really loved (there was a woman but she was straight and religious (as was I at the time) and never spoke to me again when I told her about my feelings). Despite the number & variety of experiences, I’m not sure I’ve had enough to convince myself that it’s different with women yet - I think I’ve just been unhealthy in my self & sexual expressions generally (which is why I’m starting therapy).