Growing up, I always felt like I had to pursue girls that I like because I felt like they wouldn’t talk to me. Yes I’ve dated (as a teenager, not as an adult) and I always asked the girl out. When we would break up, they only said yes to dating me to spare my feelings. I don’t think I ever had anyone like me more than a friend. I had people that said that they liked me to get into my pants (and that’s about it). I’ve spent most of my life trying to avoid things that you need for dates ( my 8th grade prom, and most of my high school dances). I didn’t want to be that girl that couldn’t get a date or a dance partner because I knew no one would ask me to dance. I’m not ugly, but I know people will like me for my personality and that’s about it(I’m the funny friend). Now I’m 24, and I still kinda feel like this. They have this girl in my class, that my friend knows this girl likes me, and she thinks I should talk to her. But I feel weird about it. Like why would she like me? Why not my friend, my friend is way more attractive than me. It’s also weird because I’m about 6 years older than her, and I never thought about her in that way. I know I should at least talk to her, and give her a chance. But I really don’t know why she likes me? I ain’t shit. And I’m not the person that would ask her that to her face. What is wrong with me? What should I do?