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Why is it so hard to find pretty lesbians?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by DanielaKc, May 19, 2017.

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How many pretty lesbians do you know?

Poll closed Aug 27, 2017.
  1. None

    10 vote(s)
    15.4%
  2. One or two maybe

    16 vote(s)
    24.6%
  3. More than 3 for sure

    39 vote(s)
    60.0%
  1. Unlovedbi

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    I do not consider myself pretty... sadly... but this kinda hurt. Yeah I know... I know... it's a preference and we all free to choose, but damn it still stung.

    Maybe you have to come to nyc... I think there are pretty ones here... minus me.
     
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    Nah, you look cute. Don't take shallow people like this seriously.
     
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    Thank you. :slight_smile:
     
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    What do you define as pretty? When I was still starting to question my sexuality, I only prefered more feminine girls. Now I find androgynous girls a little more interesting, especially when they fit into the lesbian stereotype (because I know they're very likely into girls, and I find that particularly hot).

    If you're simply talking about ugliness in general (which is to some degree defined by arbitrary societal standards), there's nothing I can say to help you. Eventually you'll find a girl who strikes your fancy and maybe she'll also be interested in you.
     
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    I don't find it hard. I know quite a few beautiful gay women.

    The most beautiful of them decided to let me date her which i'm pretty stoked about. Hopefully she doesn't come to her senses any time soon :grin:
     
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    I mean, I have heard that being picky af can makes things difficult, but that's just my two cents :shrug:
     
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    Well, while I doubt I am gonna win Miss World anytime soon, I am still not so ugly that children look at me and run away crying.....guess it depends where on the scale between those two that you personally draw the line between pretty and ugly. lol
     
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    Beauty fades. Dumb is forever
     
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    I'm a pretty cute lesbian if i don't say so myself :wink:
     
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    I know so many pretty lesbians!
     
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    Haha...similarities attract :icon_bigg

    I never have any problems finding "pretty" lesbians. Probably 'cause I'm drop-dead gorgeous (!) lol. The problem isn't finding pretty lesbians, it's finding pretty single ones that's the issue.
     
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    Most lesbians I know are gorgeous so no idea...and I live in Spain too:')

    I suppose it depends on your 'preferences' as bad as it sounds.
    Every person feels attracted to a different sort of beauty.
    And don't forget the personality... Most important!!
     
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    A classic lesbophia argument : lesbians are ugly. Well done! Again and again it comes as a big surprise to me how negative lesbians talk about lesbians. I've never seen gay men behaving like that. That might be one explaination for lesbian invisibility: a negative image.
    Maybe longing for attributes like cute and pretty and whatever is a matter of age. I am not at all attracted to persons who chose these depictions/labels because I'm into grown up, strong women, who live their life in confidence. So that's like the opposite of a cute little girl...
     
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    Pretty is so subjective.. if you mean traditionally feminine, probably 0. But all the lesbians I know are beautiful.
     
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    Totally true, I myself am a pretty, closeted, lesbian.
     
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    Probably more than you think, they're just not read as gay.
     
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    I'm sorry this offends the one posting this question... but I find it rude, callous (you may want to look that word up) and uncalled for! Luckily, a person's true beauty comes from within their spirit and not what we are given at birth. In many cases a person may be absolutely gorgeous on the outside but stunningly UGLY on the inside. If all a person is looking for in a partner is their 'arm jewelry' appeal, then I would find that person quite shallow and very unattractive. As for pretty lesbians, I think that they are all pretty.
     
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    My sister does not seem to have problems finding the pretty ones. Maybe it's where you live? Granted, my sister doesn't have trouble finding lesbians of all sorts, but she always seems to have a variety of pretty ones to choose from whenever she's single.
     
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    Why is it so hard to find a lesbian in the first place?