^ So true OGS, I think gay guys (not all, as you have shown enough empathy in your comment) only see the sexual attention from their own selfish perspective. They want attention from guys, so they view us as lucky, like they totally miss the whole point that lesbian means "not into guys". Like I said, if straight women went around sexually harassing and assaulting gay men to the extent straight men do to lesbians, they would probably start getting annoyed and crying about how disgusting straight girls are to gay guys. I actually already see them do this when some women grab their crotches in gay bars, which they know is assault, but it goes over their head that straight men do the same thing to lesbians. It would be like if I said "wow, gay men are so lucky that straight women grab their crotches and want to turn them straight, I wish straight women would sleep with me!" It makes no sense and it lacks empathy for the other side who doesn't desire that kind of attention and is getting downright annoyed by it.