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Why do lesbians hate bisexual girls?

Discussion in 'Anonymous Sexual Orientation' started by Anonymous, Jan 11, 2018 at 4:27 PM.

  1. Anonymous

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    Even if my crush is gay as I hope she is, she might not like me after she gets to know that I am bisexual. I have seen so many lesbians saying how it would be unfortunate to come across a hot girl and find out she is bi. What is so wrong about being bi? Why do lesbians hate us so much?? Are we bad at sex like a straight girl? I just don't understand...it makes me sad. I have felt alienated for whom I love, just like every gay people. I've been through it too. But in my case. both the gay party and hetero party hate me, say that I'm "slutty". I didn't open my heart to you just to be slutshamed. If you are a lesbian, please explain what bi girls have done wrong. :/
     
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    I think lesbians are just intimidated by bi women. They are scared that eventually bi girls will leave them for a guy, a traditional family etc.
    Which to certain extent kind of makes sense...
     
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    Just sounds like ignorant people. Be thankful they showed their true colors early on than later.
     
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    I don't think lesbians hate bisexual women, it's just that the two communities are very, very different with very different histories, and I think many lesbians feel that they can't relate to the experiences of bisexual women, but bisexual women typically act as if they understand the life of a lesbian. Those are the arguments I've heard on the matter, at least. I think lesbians, understandably, want women who are a part of the lesbian community and who have a shared history. I don't think most lesbians are adverse to the idea of dating bisexual women, though.
     
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    As I understand it, lesbians are distrustful towards bisexual women. They fear them one day leaving them for a man.
     
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    I don't think it's at all true that lesbians hate bisexual women. It may be true that some lesbians have a certain mistrust of bisexual women, but I think it's quite an exaggeration to suggest that the majority, or anything close to the majority harbour such feelings. It's a sad reality that some people (straight and gay) have an instinctive mistrust of bisexual people and they really do need to put in a bit of self work and get over it.
     
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    In my world 9/10 times I'll meet a girl that identifies as a bisexual rather than a lesbian. Just like above post stated, some fear being left, not being enough, etc. None of those are YOUR problems.
     
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