Everyone warns people with religious or conservative families about homophobic responses. They tell them to be careful. I thought I would be safe since my family is pretty liberal and non-religious. I was physically safe. I also didn't deal too much with classic homophobia. What I did deal with was everyone doubting my identity. All of that made me have a mental breakdown. I really wish people could warn people about being doubted, especially if they have a history of mental health issues.