Hi, I am supposedly male gay... I just want to know is it normal to have a girly personality? Before coming out (to my sister) I was very sure that I was gay it suddenly came to me how I liked guys. But then... a sudden thought came to me - I always acted a lot like a typical woman. I started questioning myself did I ever not feel good as a man? I didnt remeber anything. But my mind kept going at me : 'You are just too scared to go further than gay; Trans people are a taboo you arent going to risk that...' And then I came out. I already accepted the fact that I'm gay I just needed someone else to accept me. They did. So just now I am wondering. Are male gays suppoosed to be manly or is that just a artificial thought of a person who is insecure? Is it ok to be girly or do gay men want masculine chads?