I can't be the only one who feels this way. There's an overpowering feeling straight out of the bowels of hell, and that is when one of your friends gets laid before you do. It's a whole flurry of emotions. You get reminded that you can't have sex yourself. You're reminded that you're already X years (21 in my case) without having had any. You get reminded that there's something terribly wrong with you. Common sense tells you there's nothing remarkable about sex, but you can't help but feel that they've transformed into a higher level of being, forever unattainable for you. It's so overpowering that you're essentially knocked out for the afternoon. It clobbers you and ruins your day. It's awful. Late virgins only: Am I the only one who feels like this?