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When was your first Blowjob?

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by DanielSmith, Apr 26, 2015.

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  1. LaEsmeralda

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    I think I was 15 when I first gave a boy a blowjob. It was a complete and utter nightmare. Outside, in a public place. Plus, he was disgusting and I didn't even like him. Just did it to fit in with my sex-crazy friends at the time.

    I was 19 when I first received oral sex, in my bed, with my (now ex) boyfriend :slight_smile: Was a far more pleasant experience.
     
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    I admit that I think I was way too young to get a bj when I first received one. I was only 13 and my girlfriend had just turned 15.
    My first experience giving and receiving with a guy was when I was 25.

    Both experiences were ok but nothing to scream with joy about.
     
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    I was 17 when I gave my first BJ, but I wouldn't say you're behind at all. I'm sure that if I wasn't with a partner that was older than me it would have changed things lol :slight_smile:

    You are young. Too young?...only you would know that.Everyone moves at their own pace. I feel like "you know when you're ready" for sexual stuff. Don't try to gain experience because you think everyone else has done something, the odds are they probably haven't lol
     
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    You're NOT behind at all.
    I was 23 when I first gave oral and received it.
     
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    I wouldn't put too much weight behind the anecdotal experiences of others. If it seems like most people your age have had more experiences than you but beyond that you don't feel compelled to do anything about it, then I think you are better off waiting, don't you? Forcing yourself to have an experience just because you feel "on the clock" about it is a bad idea.
     
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    I gave my fist bj when i was 18 years old!!
    I kinda hated it because his penis was so DIRTY! i was shocked he didnt even wash it
    It wasnt such an nice experience, but id like to try it again on a clean penis lol
     
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    Well when I was 17 because my ex pressured me into a lot of things I didn't want to do. I guess that's why I think of giving them as a bit demeaning and degrading.

    Then I was celibate from 18-22

    I first received oral at 22 from a girl... That was amazing LoL She knew what she was doing. I never gave though as she prefer me using my hands and really it was just a bit of fun between us. I cared about her a lot but I also liked someone else and was torn between them which led me to...

    My current boyfriend and I got together before I turned 23 and that was the next time I gave. Because of my past experiences I don't really enjoy giving it and still find it a bit degrading... So I don't do that for him very often. He goes down for me on a rare occasion as well.

    Usually if him and I do go downtown we 69 because that way its a bit more satisfying for both parties LoL
     
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    My only blowjobs ever came from a high school girlfriend, when I was almost 18. I'm never given one (kinda curious) but I have gone down on my GF multiple times.

    But you shouldn't feel like there's a timeline to follow. You shouldn't ever feel pressured to do something, from a partner or just the people around you. You do WHAT you're comfortable with, with SOMEONE you're comfortable with, WHEN you're comfortable doing so.

    You do you man. Don't let other people DICKtate your sex life. :grin:
     
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    Well... uuh, I'm 19 and uh, still haven't had any of that, doesn't look like it'll happen soon either.
    I wouldn't worry about it though, you're not behind at all, and if you hypothetically were, so what? It shouldn't really matter :slight_smile:
     
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    me, around 15? 16? it was on both ends with different guys, wish i could've been a bit more mindful about it.

    you're not far behind and you shouldn't worry too much about it. don't feel peer pressured about it, you're still young. you have time to learn and be comfortable the way you want it, not what others want you to do.
     
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    Received 19 with a female.

    Gave 27?
     
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    17 he was a lot older
     
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    ...never =/
     
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    I was 17 and received ... he only did it for a few seconds and stopped.

    The next time was when I was 26. That included first kiss and give/receive. I was a virgin till then too. (I only came out at 25).
    I still sometimes think I am behind but I know it isn't so. Everyone takes there own time.
     
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    Not yet but I know I will have it at 22
     
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    I won't share my age but got and returned young!
     
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