Hello, When should I stay or leave in a relationship/friendship? How should I leave (cold cut or in person)? How can I keep myself away? How can I not let them back in? How can I know if they're hurting me? How can I deal with them telling people I'm the bad one for leaving? How can I stay when I've had this panic and resolved it to be fine? How can I stay if the panicking continues? How can I stay if them hurting me could continue? How can I stay if they have hurt me but suggest to me I should get over it or be sympathetic to their internal suffering over how theyve hurt mebecause they're ill? my aunt striked her husband who was advised to "give her a chance." - he stayed).