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When someone asks you what your type is? What do you say?

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  1. RahRahLM

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    I always seem to stumble with this one. I know my type but I dong if I'm bring to specific or if they just want it briefly or do I just say looks or just personality stuff or both. I dunno...

    Say when I last got asked I basically said

    Tall, similar build to me (slim), kind, caring, can't take life to serious, spontaneous and someone who love romantic side of relationship stuff

    I feel awkward telling them cuz I dobtvkbow if it's too precise or if I'm saying the right things.

    Look... What do you guys think?
     
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    Well, maybe, if you can't decide what to say, just choose 2 personality stuff and two about looks. What you mostly find attractive, and what you NEED in person to form a relationship.
     
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    I feel awkward when asked this too, as my friend asks me all the time. XD I usually just say, "I don't know." I like a lot of different "types." It would be easier listing which ones are not my type. What I find attractive, I find attractive. There isn't one "type" that rules them all for me.
     
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    Feminine with a dark seductiveness (mix with some adorableness = extra points.)

    Usually I'd just show a picture of my current j-rock obsessions and say "like that." Haha
     
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    Male, funny, nerdy and a cute face doesn't hurt
     
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    I just say "I'm aesthetically attracted to skinny guys with fluffy hair, and men who are effeminate. I'm also aesthetically attracted to women (don't have to be thin) with long hair. But I'm more about kindhearted, mature, people who don't mind a sexless relationship, and are capable of working things out."
     
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    Usually I just say I like feminine girls and that's good enough for them.
     
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    Feminine girls! Which makes it so difficult in gay clubs. Over here we get a lot of straight girls in gay clubs with their gay male (or female) friends. Leads to quite a bit of embarrassment! "Sorry...I'm not gay...i'm here with my friend..." Whoops!
     
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    My type is extremely easy to define, it goes along the lines of:
    People who I am attracted to
     
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    Feminine girls, masculine guys.
     
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    Redheads.

    Which is funny because my girlfriend isn't one. But people don't really ask me anymore anyway, because I've been in a relationship for eons.
     
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    Well if I'm not out to them then I just say something vague like funny and laidback.
    But if I'm not to them then I'll go into details :slight_smile: Perhaps too much :lol:
     
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    For me intelligence, humours and feminine these are the common factors amongst my crushs and love interests.
     
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    I care mostly about personality and I aprecciate people who I have stuff in common with and can easily talk to.

    As for looks... I really don't know. Somedays I might be into blondes, others I might be into something else. That's pretty much whatever comes with the package.
     
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    I'm hardly ever asked this; I'm guessing because I hardly ever show much interest in wanting somebody. I sometimes wonder if I give off a 'single forever so leave me alone' vibe... :la:

    Nobody I know knows about where my true attractions are so, even if they do ask, I wouldn't give them any real answer anyways. I just tend to throw out some (kinda) made up celeb crush to hopefully change the topic.

    As for the actual question, as a few others above have also said, it'd be easier to say what isn't. What is is so broad a definition that I would probably say 'idk' and just list a few cliché things, because I really don't know how to answer that kinda question(I don't really think about it too much). I guess I will say this though; if we have enough common interests, your appeal to me would be boosted as a general thing.
     
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    I dont have an exact type, I generally like guys that are funny, nice, hot, Idc about the body as long as they arent morbidly obese or too musculer, and nerdy (with a decent face)

    I value personality over looks though when Im looking for someone to date.
     
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    I just tell them that I don't have a specific type.
     
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    No cheaters, no assholes, no clingy, desperate or needy personalities, has to be at least semi independent and bonus points if they enjoy video games and coffee.