It's funny, today I've been dwelling on the complete opposite since it took me so long to really see/come to terms with the gay in myself: how many people could tell I was gay before I could? When I first started coming out it was totally shocking to whoever I told. After last week's massive coming out to everyone on Facebook, I was rather floored by the number of "I kind of knew" messages I received. Before I really realized I was gay, quite a few people in my teens and early 20s asked if I was, which I always denied because I didn't think I was. I wonder how many more people thought it or discussed it behind my back.