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When did you realise you were LGBT

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Nordland, Feb 1, 2016.

  1. Kodo

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    I was 15 when I first realized I "wasn't exactly a girl." Kept having dreams of waking up in boxers one day, shirtless/flat-chested and stubbly faced. And that became my dream. A year later I learned I was trans, a year after that I came out.
     
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    I had my first sexual encounter with a boy when I was in the third grade , I knew I liked boys , I just didn't know that it was called being 'gay' . Coming to think of it , I started having sex at a very young age , with both sexes ( don't blame me for experimenting hey ) . This escalated once I got into highschool . I started leaning more towards men . I'd rarely think of women . I'd have sex twice or thrice a week , with guys of course ... And it had never bothered me until it did . I denied that I was gay , I tried to compensate by being with multiple women . It was all in futility . One day I woke up and realised that I am gay , and I won't change ... And I don't want to change ! Not for a place in heaven or just 2 cheeseburgers and fries . This is me . My past has been turbulent and every now and then taunts and torments . A closet ( mind the pun ) full of skeletions isn't helping either but I've grown into the person I want to become . In November 2014 I came out to one of my very closest friends , that was the first time it ( me being gay ) really felt concrete . It was a leap of faith I was willing to take ... Unfortunately today we rarely speak . She's off to college and there's a part of me that wishes I hadn't told her anything but Aaah ... Cest La Vie ... Its how it goes . !

    Cheers !
     
  3. wolf of fire

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    I've always had an attraction to both, took me a long time to accept.
    I had a dream when I was 9 that I think was my sub conscious telling me I'm female.
     
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    Dreams are powerful
     
  5. Wolfie0001

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    I never really had any interest in girls when I was growing up, but back then homosexuality wasn't as present in the media as it is today, so I never really thought about it. I probably only knew for sure when I started using the internet in my mid 20s and made my first gay friends online.
     
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    Well I have only just recently accepted it recently but if I hadn't moved I guess that would have happened around 2 years ago. I have known since I was about 10/11 ish.
     
  7. alonsy alonso

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    Well when i was about 10 i had a sleepover with a girl and she wanted me to kiss her but i did not want to because i thought it was wrong... biggggg mistake... and i think because subconsciously i wanted to but i did not want to seem wierder than i already was. Then fast forward to 14 everyone was talking about this party where girls were kissing girls and they were all making jokes but i thought hey i would quite happily do that. I think i knew i had been questioning it for months but i refused to believe i was something people had not told i was but i knew i liked girls and boys in that moment
     
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    For me when I was 13 or so I started thinking about guys a. Lot and having sex weigh them I denied it for. Almost two years but now recently I finally accepted myself and I'm also out to a few people