I know I'm different on this, but it's nothing physical, really. It's usually their intelligence/the way they think. Usually, she'll say something that really triggers me, and it's like, "Yep, she's my kind of woman." With my latest crush, that eventually happened, but the first thing I really noticed was her sense of humor because it definitely surprised me that she was funny. I don't generally care whether or not a woman is funny, and I think one of the reasons why I was surprised is because, with very few exceptions, I don't really encounter women who are consistently naturally funny, i.e. not trying hard to be funny.