What Turns You OFF?

Rawrzilla - I laughed out loud. Amazing post.

The only thing I can really think of is really blatant stupidity and ignorance. I don't mind if someone admits not really knowing much about something, that's fine. But people who launch into a tirade or a debate with the stupidest, most irrelevant points just make me want to kick them in the teeth.

Example:

Me: "I don't think a display on creationism has a place in a museum"
Person: "But how will people learn about creationism?"
Me: "Books, Church school - where these theories belong. Museums are a place for theories that have scientific proof."
Person: "But what if we lose all the books"
Person 2: "Yeah, if you're a tourist coming to this country, you go the museum to learn things, you don't read a book"
Me:........ (WTF AM I HEARING OH MY GOD MY BRAIN IS MELTING OUT MY EARS)

This was an actual conversation I had with someone and she was being deadly serious. Unfortunately her boyfriend was just as stupid as she was. This sort of stuff... God. No. NO. NOOOOOO. I'd rather kill myself than spend more than five minutes with a person with this little sense in their head.

And I have a serious thing against bad breath and foot odour. Someone who is a bit sweaty or has greasy hair, don't care. But bad breath and foot odour? Bleurgh.

 

It's really a turn off if a girl is bossy or a control freak.

 

Hmm... bad breath. There's this guy who has the worst breath and he sits beside me in class. It's awful. I know his girlfriend and have no idea how she puts up with it.

For personality things, I hat it when people try too hard to impress others and fit in. It gets on my nerves. Just be your own freaking person!

 

Lets see...someone doubling down on stupidity, excessive drinking for entertainment, chain-smoking, poor hygiene, control freaks, defining me with blanket terms like "male to female" even when corrected (I have Tetragametic Chimerism from merging with my brothers egg), too many misgenderings/invasive questions after they find out I'm trans, over-fascination with my race/trans body, and dates who are high-maintenance. I shut down a date real quick when someone becomes more fascinated with what I am than who I am as a person.

 

pet names, acting like they own me, saying I'm the only thing that makes them happy, jealousy, clinginess, among many other things already said here.

 

A lot of things. Physically not too much besides the fact that big breasts don't really appeal to me, especially if they are not natural.

Emotionally, a lot of things. Having kids (as I'm too young/immature to care for them), not being monogamous or wanting sex early (Not against it, just not for me), Smoking/Drinking past it just being social, DEPENDENCY (or needing to chat every day), Over jealousy to a ridiculous extent, Defining sex as penetration with a man, and people who don't respect my sexuality; like a bi girl I dated who said "I might like guys one day too" ewww

 

Personality-wise:

Rudeness
Lack of basic social manners
Over-sensitive
Complains all the time about the most trivial things
Narrow-minded

Physically:

Long hair
Huge tattoos
Piercings and earrings
Very bad teeth
Poor hygiene
Too skinny
Too pale
Too hairy (back, hands and feet)

 

Turn offs:

- Bad body odor. ( You gotta shower at least once every other day)
- Calling people fat. (Mind your own damn business)
- Disrespecting parents. ( They brought/raised you to/in this world. Whether they agree or disagree to the way you live your life. They. Are. Your. Parents.)
- Bad Manners. (We live in a civilized time. Act like it.)
- Trying to control my time with my friends. (I had a life before I met you, not stopping it then, so not gonna happen now.)
- Ignorance ( Just shut up.)

 

I can think of a lot of things.

Someone who expects to sleep with me on the first date. I could be having a really great time with someone, but I still wouldn't want to jump in bed with them.

Someone who is only interested in talking about themselves instead of trying to get to know me which is the whole purpose of a first date.

Honestly have to agree with bad hygiene being a big turn off.

Someone who can't keep my interest. I don't want to be staring at the clock the entire time counting the seconds until its over. Not exactly a turn off.

Someone who can't really hold a decent conversation with me.

And then of course all the more obvious ones like them being rude.. etc.

 

Never been in a relationship before, so I wouldn't know. But well, I can't accept people with different political beliefs and self-claimed "anti-feminists". Also people who are picky, rude and disrespectful, or too nice and patronizing. Oh, and prudes.

This is off-topic but I am immediately turned off when straight girls talk about their relationships with boys (even when they are super hot, which is kind of sad) or when I see a straight couple engaging in PDA.

 

The listing of one's turn-offs.

 

guys who act like my ex girlfriend from college.

Example: Controlling. Won't let you have a sense of style. Criticizes you for the music you like. Very condescending. If I would tell a joke (or at least attempt to), they would interrupt and ruin it. Then they wonder why I haven't called and talked to them in over a week or two.

 

Ummm somehow I find this guy very hot. He can make that monkey face to me anytime.

 

When watching porn: Very aggressive guys in hardcore sex. I like it nice, slow, and smooth.

In finding a partner: D.U.M.B.

 

If a guy smells off... like, a sickly sweet kind of scent- I just can't stand it. Also, guys with bad breath. Basically, scent plays a big role as to whether or not I'm attracted to someone.

 

I think it has something to do with the popped collar

 

Stupidity and body hair. Everything else is pretty debatable.

 

Turn Offs:
- Body Hair
- Body Odor
- Extremely muscular people
- People who are extremely cocky
- Racism
- People who are ignorant on a subject yet still talk about it as if they know about it.
- Sports fanatics
- Sneaker heads (people who spent there whole savings on a pair of sneakers..)

I could probably go on and on but those are the top ones.

 

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Two things
1-either hates women or doesn't respect them consider himself smarter and better and consider them less than or talks about them in a bad like that girl is a slut oh she is a whore oh that one she is so ugly i will never talk to him ever again !
2- fake masculinity and being a man (no offence to masc men here dont get me wrong!) to the point that if i was ashamed of something or had a trouble or cried he would say your a man man up ! that word would turn me off and send him to hell