You know what's kind of odd? I don't like the other f-word being tossed around just because it's been used to hurt so many gay men, but because the word dyke has been reclaimed so much, I kinda like it. I'm a trans guy and if a lesbian said something like, "Check out that hot dyke," I don't think I'd be offended. Fact is that someone found me attractive for being in my current body, sans hormones or anything, and I'd be a little happy about that more than dysphoric. Sound weird?