Hello EC! It has been a long time, but the agender skelemoose has returned. With a lot of stories and a decent amount of confusion. So. My previous boyfriend of one year broke up with me because I told him I wasn't likely going to want to have sex with him. Identifying as asexual, I didn't really feel any sexual attraction, and he considered that a deal breaker. Which was fine, I kinda expected it. But here's the kicker. Two weeks later, I started dating another guy. And I've really hit it off with him, I really like him a lot. And uh... Well. For once in my life I've felt sexual attraction. And rather strongly. And I don't understand. I've literally never felt like this with someone before. And it's made me feel incredibly confused about my sexual orientation. Do I still consider myself ace? Demi? Or do I go all the way and call myself pansexual? Have I always been sexual and this guy happened to be my awakening to people? Was the reason for me not wanting to have sex with my ex just because I really wasn't attracted to him? This is the first time I've ever felt this way about someone and I'm just super confused.