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What i need to do

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Sadness, Jul 20, 2022.

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  1. Sadness

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    So being straight forward, what do I need to do to know if I only have OCD, or if i am gay and have OCD?

    on my last post i said i should stop testing, and yeah it’s true, but its hard not to do, so there is something i can do to this cycle to stop?

    I mean, if im gay and have ocd, how to overcome the mental block and suppression of arousal i maybe do? Should i think about doing a bj to a guy every time so the tingle will actually turn into a arousal?

    and if I only have OCD, how to overcome besides meds and therapist? How to overcome my fear and weird feeling of what it seems to be repulse of vagina, even tho i get hard when i keep thinking about it
     
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    You're basically talking in circles again.

    1. Get a new psychiatrist and re-evaluate your meds for OCD. They are not working effectively.
    2. Get a therapist that specializes in OCD.
    3. Buy the book 'Brain Lock'. I've been suggesting ths to you for years.
    4. Testing serves no purpose.It's OCD, You are straight.
     
    #2 Chip, Jul 21, 2022
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