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What exactly defines sexuality?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by ihmawtd1234, Nov 16, 2018.

  1. ihmawtd1234

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    Gender:
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    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
    Okay, so i have posted on here a couple of times now... but to make it simple im just gonna write facts about my current situation, and then you can hopefully help me figure out what i am.

    - Im 20 years old and male

    - I am attracted to a wide variety of women( girls my age, milfs etc.)

    - The only guys im attracted to are so called "twinks" or otherwise feminine looking guys (guys you would describe as beautiful instead of handsome. In other words i am attracted to very few guys compared to women.

    - I usually masturbate to straight porn, and when i do, my focus is always on the woman

    - Occasionally i watch gay porn, but usually i "explore" my gay side when i use my fantasy while masturbating

    - My attraction in terms of how often i find someone attractive favors the women, since my "taste" is so much wider here

    - My attraction in terms of the very "strength" of the attraction favors the guys, since these few special guys really is the peak of my attraction.

    - Romantically i suppose im more inclined to fall for these beautiful young men, although i have had a small crush on a girl once.

    - When walking around in town i notice both women and guys if they seem attractive, however since my attraction for these few guys are stronger, i tend to "really" notice them

    - Men aged about 25+ does absolutely nothing for me, mostly due to the fact that they begin losing that femininity and youthful beauty.

    So as you can see, there are different factors like emotional attraction vs sexual attraction, and also quantative vs qualitative in terms of attractions (how often u find a gender attractive vs what gender you find most attractive)........

    So what is the true indicator?

    Anyways what do you guys think this makes me? Bisexual? gay?
     
  2. Fishtail

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    Sexual Orientation:
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    1: Porn isn't a solo way to figure out your orientation.
    2: Others shouldn't and can't decide your sexuality for you
    3: It may be better to find other Gay&Bi guys you can talk to face-to-face.

    I think you need to date a guy or if you preffer just a sex-date(?) with no string attached,
    if you haven't, to figure out if it's just a fantasy or fetish of your imagination.
     
    #2 Fishtail, Nov 16, 2018
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