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What do you find attractive - Body aesthetics

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Yato Gami, Aug 20, 2017.

  1. jam93

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    for guys I like a slim build, but with defined muscles (the roided-out body builder look is just disgusting to me). Especialy if he's got nice pecks and arms. I also like a strong, angular jawline, and either stubble or a short beard (cleen shaven is nice but I love beards).

    For girls I like short hair a lot. I think girls with a pixie cut are really, really hot. I also like the shave one side look, regardless of length. I think its edgy and hot. I like curves but not to many (if that makes sense). Medium to small breasts and a nice defined butt are really hot. I also kind of like women with a strong jawline (like the actress who played 13 on house, can't remember her name).
     
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    I like sexy eyes in women nice cheek bones who look after their appearance and good hygiene obviously
     
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    I'm a gay girl, and I love good cheekbones, freckles and messy hair. I like good style and fashion sense (often alternative-looking), but a lot of my attraction to girls depends more on their confidence than it does on what exactly they're wearing. My biggest girl crushes celeb-wise are Natasha Lyonne and Joan Jett.
     
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    I like guys who are skinny/slender.
     
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    Broad shoulders, dark hair (preferably a little messy and rather short), dark brown eyes (preferably not green tinted, light tanned skin is slightly preferable. Large glute muscles and triceps (not so much biceps though) and relatively close height to mine (a little taller is nice, but giraffes are definitely not a turn on...) Not hard and fast rules but general preference.
     
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    I like all kinds of hair long, short, curly. But my favorite has to be ginger.
    I also like all eye colors but green is downright gorgeous.
    Over all Im mainly focused on the face (the most unique part) and appreciate natural beauty, no crazy layers of makeup or piercings.
    But that's just my opinion. What's your?
     
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    I'm attracted to people taller than me (over 5'6") and also thin lips. I don't like to sound too picky, but I do prefer fit to average bodies.
    And in women I tend to notice them more if they have smaller breasts.
     
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    Eyes, regardless of gender. I love when someone has beautiful eyes you can just get lost in. It's not any specific shape or color and it's hard to pinpoint what gives some this quality but not others.

    On guys, ideally big, tall, and muscular. Make me feel protected and cared for. (I know typical girl answer) I think dating a guy shorter than me would be bad for my gender dysphoria, but at least if he's big I may be able to look past it. No petite men, that wouldn't work for me.

    Girls...I don't know really. Besides the eyes, soft. Like soft skin and kinda squishy.
     
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    Personally, I really like hands. Hands are great. Like, smaller hands that are quite thin. I'm also quite partial to hair. Especially on girls, having really long, well kept hair is bloody amazing.
     
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    I like "cute" guys, rather than "hot" or "handsome" guys. I've described it before as a "pretty boy". I like guys who are slim, but have a little build. But too much muscle is a turn off. Heavily defined 6-pack abs are not my thing. But it's nice if they are showing a little bit.

    I prefer brown hair, but I'm not overly picky on that, as different hair colors can be attractive on different people. Ideal height would be around 6 or 6'1. I'm 6'3, and for some reason I like when I'm taller by a little bit. Eye color would be brown or bright blue. Soft skin, soft lips, long eye lashes, cute smile. Clean shaven - no beard, chest hair, or anything. No piercings or excessive tattoos. Typically preppy pretty boy look.
     
  11. In guys, slim with a maybe a little muscle tone. feminine features, I don't really care about height, oh and I find ginger hair to be extremely attractive.

    In women: short, androgynous features, curves, and unnatural hair colors.

    My preferences are weird as shit.
     
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    I like femme girls, but not too girly.. I like girls with pretty faces. Haha.

    With men, my taste varies. I can't pinpoint a specific physical characteristic for men.
     
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    women I like long hair, and they absolutely can't be a stick, that is not attractive in the slightest

    men I like intense eyes and a bit of muscle or at least definition isnt a bad thing
     
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    General rule: Face, I love cute.
    Cute boys are so hot and quirky it drives me nuts.

    Erm for females "power", a women in charge of her future is oddly attractive.
     
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    Pretty eyes. I like woman with a few extra pounds that's extremely attractive to me
     
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    I really love when women has pretty eyes with that little spark in them. I also love the female curve on the lower back. It's just so beautiful. And the stomach. Maybe I just love women.
     
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    On girls, I don't like excessive leg or underarm hair. I tend to prefer darker or red hair. I tend to like taller girls who aren't overweight.

    On guys, I can't do chest hair or back hair. I don't mind facial hair, a treasure trail, leg hair, or anything like that. I like darker hair and tall guys who have some muscle and not overweight.

    I like warm cuddly people in general.
     
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    Dimples!!
     
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    Big muscular hairy legs on men...with a bit of belly. Not a fan of 6 packs because I can tell men like those eat shitty food...such as dry chicken breast and brocolli.
     
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    I live big strong men with a bit of hair, (like bears or muscle bears i think they are called), Mainly because i like people who look like it would be good to hold/snuggle with... i'm legit scared that this means that i may have 'Daddy issues'