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What do you find attractive - Body aesthetics

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  1. Yato Gami

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    Hey Folks!
    Do you have any Special preferences? I'm talking about specific Body characteristics, neither personality characteristics nor just Things like "the female Body" or stuff.

    For example, I find wrists, especially delicate female wrists, extraordinarily aesthetic or thin Hands where you see the bones through the Skin (I mean not too thin like only bones but you know what I mean?).

    That about women, idk about men.^^

    What about you?
     
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    With men I like 'em slim and tall not too much muscle, I don't require a man who can bench press my body weight to feel whole but yknow little tone is ok.

    As for women, call me shallow but I like it when they're a bit on the curvy side, with softer features, real feminine.
     
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    A man who can do classy or androgynous. Angular features in the face I really like (e.g. cheek bones, jawline, sharp nose).

    With women, soft, round faces I find beautiful. And the eyes especially stand out to me with either sex.
     
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    I like short people lol
     
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    I like guys around my height, so on the shorter side (anything below 5'8, my height).

    Beards and body hair. I love hairy, otter/bear type guys.

    As for girls, more "alternative" like style. Not really picky, I actually appreciate unconventional beauty and facial structure in girls more, and notice that the girls I'm attracted to are cute, not classically or traditionally pretty.
     
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    I like long hair a lot preferably red or ginger.Also eyes I love bright coloured eyes.
     
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    In men.... nicely developed shoulders, but not too much bulk. Intense eyes.

    In women.... navels are hot. *Chuckles* And a good smile that reaches the eyes.
     
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    In people, punching Nazis, finding consent hot.
     
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    In men - Has to be taller than me (I'm 5'10.5") and have a sturdy build (Not muscular and a beer belly is a bonus). Preferably clean-shaven face and not too hairy otherwise (And has to at least trim pubic hairs. Shaving is a bonus). Big, strong hands, but soft skin. Darker hair (anything darker than blonde) a preference but not a must (I'd date blonde guys, if they meet the other criteria). Any eye colour.

    In women - Slim to medium-sized body, shorter than me, dainty and girly. Any hair colour, any eye colour. Has to have clean-shaved armpits, legs and *cough*pubic region*cough*

    I know I'm probably shallow and full of shit, but those are ideal partners, not necessarily real.....Subject to change :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Oh yes, and good hygiene... without overdoing it to Barbie/Ken doll status.
     
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    I prefer guys my height (5'7") or a little shorter, but I'm not particularly picky about that. I like taller guys too. Darker hair is nice too, but I'm not attuned to that either. I'm more attentive to grooming. I'm more attracted to clean and shaven faces. I could talk about a few other things that stand out, but I would feel very shallow. These are the ones I'm more cognizant of now.
     
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    Well, the only thing I would pay attention to in a woman is if she had beautiful, long hair. Female bodies are not really of any interest to me so...

    In the case of men, however, oh boy, the list is long...! :grin: But just to mention a few things:

    Forearms. Forearms, forearms, forearms! Not the muscular kind and certainly not the hairy kind, just nicely formed, olive-skinned forearms while the owner of said forearms is wearing a white, simple shirt with rolled-up sleeves.

    The jaw line, neck and the shoulder line. I think all these parts kind of work together to form one of the most attractive parts of the male body and my eyes are easily fixated on them.

    I love pecs. I don't care at all about abs, but naturally formed pecs ( not the gym-variety type, those tend to be too bulky and buff, but the type a man gets from just practicing sport even moderately in his youth or just a happy result of genetics ) are a pleasure to look at and to caress, as well.
     
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    The only thing I like that pertains to the body is a smaller bust size. I have a bit of a fetish for A cup chest. Dunno why.
     
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    A good smile, it drives me crazy.
    Dark hair and blue eyes.
     
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    Any guy with a beard is ludicrously attractive to me. I really love dark brown eyes. I find almost every type of natural hair colour attractive. Especially blondes, redheads and browns. I don't care about height. Body shape wise, I really like anyone with a bit of meat on their bones. Whether that be muscle or dad bod, i don't care, i find them equally attractive. I also find the Scottish and Australian accent very attractive. That's like my ideal guy but I'm not picky. As long as the guy has a great personality, I really don't care about his looks.
     
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    I like a sharp, straight nose. The nose is usually one of the first things I look at when I see a face. It kinda gauges how attractive I think the person is. I also like the hair. I like it a bit longer, mostly blonde or red colored. Other than that, I like biceps, shoulders and shoulder blades for some reason. Maybe for the masculine form, I don't know.
     
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    Alex Baldwin...he is cute!
     
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    With women I'm turned on by a very cleanly shaven arm pit. Weird huh? As for the typical things, im more sexually attracted to small breasts. Like a B cup or smaller.

    With men I like dark skin and hair.

    With either I'm attracted to Hispanic and South Korean. But either way if the person has deep dark eyes, I flat out melt. That can hook me emotionally.
     
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    The eyes is key for me in guys. I like eyes of any color, as long as they look happy and alive. I'm into upbeat guys mostly, or at least guys with character, so I can usually tell if a guy is dull by looking at his eyes. Guys don't have to have a good smile, they just have to smile, I smile a lot (according to others) so that would be nice to have in a partner. Athleticism is very important to me, I do sports every season, so if they don't do sports/have slightly significant muscle mass, I'm usually not interested. That's pretty much it :slight_smile: