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What are your turn-ons? (Bonus: turn-offs?)

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by taical, Oct 28, 2017.

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    On- Likes cars, coffee culture, Art, Handsome
    Off-smokes,Indecisive, into gay clubs.
     
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    Turn-ons (girls specifically): straight black hair that curls slightly, collared shirts, cute smiles, has similar taste in music, professionally skilled at something, feminine appearance and somewhat "masculine" personality, average height

    Turn-offs: mostly what other have said, also masculine or over-feminine appearance, short or dyed hair, glasses, being uninformed or too extroverted/introverted, extremes in anything
     
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    On - a compassionate personality, truthful/bright/happy eyes, a strong but subtle sense of self-confidence where you can tell the person accepts themselves as they are just by how they walk and act, but they don't feel the need to brag about themselves.

    Off - Lack of intelligence. Unwilling to accept new ideas. Smoking or using harmful drugs. Always finds a way to make every conversation about them and brags about themselves excessively (especially when what they are bragging about isn't even accurate).
     
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    Campfire smoke is sexy.

    Guys/girls with a geeky personality turn me on, I think short girls are cute (I constantly tease my BFF about being 8" shorter than me :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:) and dont get me started about curvy girls/muscular men.
     
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    Turn Ons: people who are healthy

    Turn offs: smokers
     
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    Turn ons: @Twist .... Seriously, there is very little that he can do that I don't find sexy in some way. Even eating is an art form when he's doing it..And hot as hell besides

    Turn offs: Since this hasn't been an issue in a very, very long time, I'm not sure I have a ready list. Dude can just stand upwind from me and I'm ready to roll LOL It really is that simple (So am I making ya'll wanna hurl with my gushing yet? It happens, it's okay *Grins*)
     
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    Ons:
    • Sensitive personality
    • can make me laugh
    • nice smile
    • intelligent
    • ski slope/button nose
    • good hygiene/skin care
    • skinny
    • gives me space when I need it
    • assertive and clear

    Offs:
    • Loud/obnoxious,
    • abusive
    • critical
    • insensitive
    • moody
    • gossipy
    • alcoholic
    • overweight
    • hairy
    • excessive stubble/facial hair
    • clingy
    • basic/closed minded
    • big/pointy nose
     
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    Turn on: Certain shaped lips, introverted, takes care of herself in all aspects, her expressions in general, good Soul, sarcastic, odd sense of humor, and subtle outlines of special body parts through clothing, she understands "with" someone over "having or needing". I'm guess a down to earth but mystic kind of woman. Yeah, :slight_smile:

    Turn offs: too much make-up, turns everything into a tradgic drama, smells like a perfume department, lives an unhealthy life style in all aspects, too much lingerie on (not really a turn off but something to yawn at), large cameltoes, too skinny, caught in trends in various ways and won't stand for their beliefs unless it's a popular thing at the moment in society, this list could go on forever. Lol. Just too picky.
     
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    Turn on's: 5'7-5'9, blonde hair , kindness, red hair, southern or English accents.

    Turn off's: big strong types, loud, alpha male types, macho attitudes.
     
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    Turn on: certain type of voice (difficult to describe but know it when I hear it, basically, my crush's voice), teasing that hurts my feelings and makes me pissed off and mad, being kind of cruel but then also gentle, confidence, having similar kinks (I'm a masochist and I like to think I can sense when someone is a sadist so that's kind of a turn on if they are a sadist)

    Turn off: being boring
     
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    On: Someone who can think deeply, honest, smart and respectful, (girls) feminine appearance (imagine tumblr hipsters but with less ego and more genuine smiles), (guys) masculine appearance (think tumblr hipsters but looks more...human, with flaws and all) , can become friendly with anyone, tall, loves animals (this one is a must) and I kinda like freckles. :grin:

    Off: Somebody who acts like a know-it-all all the time, into drinks and drugs, thinks femininity is a sort of weakness, all macho and dominant, aloof and plays hard to get and thinks they are the center of the world.
     
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    General Turn-Ons: Intelligent, Kind, Mixture of Same and Different interests.
    General Turn-Offs: Bigoted, Overtly Overweight/Underweight, Uses Drugs and Alcohol

    Women Turn-Ons: Red Hair.
    Women Turn-Offs: Breast Implants.

    Men Turn-Ons: Nice Abs.
    Men Turn-Offs: Toxic Masculinity.
     
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    gas masks, knives, aggrotech vocals and cybergoth apparels. I'm also into long, coloured hair. and good souls. and intelligence and unusual interests.
    if a guy has an androgynous face and kind of looks like a robot, I'm lost. :grin:
    I'm weird I know :grin:

    for offs, I think addictions and being too focused on sex would be the biggest ones.
     
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    Turn ons:
    1. Someone who is a deep thinker
    2. Someone who takes me to places I can only dream.
    3. Guys who stay fit.
    4. Guys who can be raunchy and have no filter
    5. Guys with money $$
    6. Guys who are understanding and committed.
    7. Guys who aren't afraid to try new things but don't pressure people.
    8. Guys who have a good sense of humor
    9. Guys who aren't afraid to be emotional.

    Turn offs:
    1. Guys who are wreck less drivers.
    2. Guys who are bad tippers
    3. Guys who don't know the name of the game.
    4. Man bun hair cuts
    5. Heavy drinkers
    6. Guys who are full of themselves
    7. Entitled
    8. Stalker
     
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    Ons - Shorter than me, smells good, braces or gap tooth for top middle teeth
    Offs: being out of shape, poor genital hygiene, body hair, smoker, poor table manners when eating
     
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    On: Genuine, kind-hearted, gets super passionate about things they love, intellectual, whole-heartedly cares about other people, cute and genuine smile, cares about others' opinions. As for physical things -- Natural beauty (ie. not too much make-up), general fitness, and honestly I'm pretty much a goner if she has a cute smile.

    Off: Arrogance, close-mindedness, smoking, drinking in excess, egotism