What Are You Attracted To?

MyLittleWorld · Sep 6, 2015

So simple... basically, individuality, weirdness and uniqueness.

Chicagoblue · Sep 6, 2015

Taly Kix Trix said: ↑

:eusa_danc Hey people!

What are you attracted to in a person? Physically and/or mentally?

I know attraction is extremely tricky, because you can find a quality hella attractive in one person, but not at all in another... Or just find someone attractive for absolutely no reason. And for me personally, I can be attracted to anyone - whether they're humorous, artistic, sexy, confident, etc. etc. under the right circumstances.

Though, whenever I daydream about being with a mate, there are some mental and physical aspects that come to mind.

Physically: Of course, I'm into manly men... Hair is almost a must, unless the person is bulky or bear-ish. I also like abs, muscle tone, broad shoulders, and etc., but I tend to like masculine appearances. No specific hair, skin, or eye color, honestly.

Oh yeah, and smiling is a big thing. Or at least have a very 'intense stare.'

Mentally: Eh, this could go one of several ways honestly - So I'll just put numbers to signify a specific personality that I can get really attracted to.

1: Stoic, Protective, Dominant but Caring, Intense, Can Be Gentle, Listener

2: Humorous, Benevolent, Sneaky, Flirty, Thoughtful, Individualist, Easy-Going

But then again, I've known people with almost none of these characteristics and they make my heart beat faster whenever I'm in a conversation with them.

Now tell me this doesn't sound realistic because I don't think it is that much. :eusa_doh: :icon_redf
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This is almost exactly what catches my attention. What keeps my attention is to be "interesting". Have something to say and primarily positive outlook.

Buttermilk · Sep 6, 2015

First few things that come to mind:

Physically:
- well kept, meaning that they put some consideration in their appearance
- slight (but rather insignificant) interest in blue eyes

Mentally:
- kind, caring thoughtful, etc.
- humour
- some intelligence

the haunted · Sep 6, 2015

Really great hair
Boldness and confidence
Skater girls
Random talent
Thirst for adventure
Tasteful tattoo sleeves
Self-respect
Would look good on top of me
Nose piercings
NIPPLE PIERCINGS OMG
A morbid and sarcastic sense of humor
Lesbians who aren't vegetarian

zgirl81 · Sep 6, 2015

Kaiser said: ↑

Physically, eh, it's all been said before... yes, some things may capture my attention easier and sooner, but keeping my attention, well, that's all about how you carry yourself, how you work with what you've got, because somebody who is resourceful and going places is, in my opinion, so God damn sexy...

It really boils down to this:

When we need to kick ass, we kick ass.
When we lay in bed and joke about how lazy we are, we do just that.
When we want to watch a movie/play a video game, we do just that.
When we do go out and enjoy ourselves, casually or a date, we do just that.
When we set goals, have dreams, or a curiosity, we work on accomplish these.

And we always look amazing doing it, but most importantly, if one of us doesn't have it, the other does, because, individually life may be too much to handle, but together, life doesn't stand a chance.

Basically, I want a bad bitch or a bad mofo. Who is down for cuddles and pillow talk. Somebody who can be relied on, trusted, and adored, but who allows the two of us to exchange these traits and positions, leading to growth and all that fancy improvement stuff. Who would play with my hair show no weakness, and tell me how pretty STRONG I am, rawr~!
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You hit the nail on the head! :icon_redf Especially the play with my hair part....

Linthras · Sep 6, 2015

Individuality, self-awareness, passion, romantics.

Those are the basics.
Bonus aspects would include: extraverts, outgoing/adventurous and confidence.

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Kaiser said: ↑

Physically, eh, it's all been said before... yes, some things may capture my attention easier and sooner, but keeping my attention, well, that's all about how you carry yourself, how you work with what you've got, because somebody who is resourceful and going places is, in my opinion, so God damn sexy...

It really boils down to this:

When we need to kick ass, we kick ass.
When we lay in bed and joke about how lazy we are, we do just that.
When we want to watch a movie/play a video game, we do just that.
When we do go out and enjoy ourselves, casually or a date, we do just that.
When we set goals, have dreams, or a curiosity, we work on accomplish these.

And we always look amazing doing it, but most importantly, if one of us doesn't have it, the other does, because, individually life may be too much to handle, but together, life doesn't stand a chance.

Basically, I want a bad bitch or a bad mofo. Who is down for cuddles and pillow talk. Somebody who can be relied on, trusted, and adored, but who allows the two of us to exchange these traits and positions, leading to growth and all that fancy improvement stuff. Who would play with my hair show no weakness, and tell me how pretty STRONG I am, rawr~!
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Lot's of similar interests here.

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Nikky DoUrden said: ↑

Physically : guys
Alignment : True Neutral to Lawful Good
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Aww, no chaotic neutral?

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