I first realized I was sexually attracted to men during a medical physical. Since then I only jack off to Gay porn, yet I still date women. I know I will not be accepted by my friends and family so being "Straight" is all I can be... When should I just come out? I could be Bi but have no interest in having sex with girls... I lost my virginity to a boy a month ago... What am I? Gay? Bi?....
It seems more likely that you are gay and you are only dating girls to meet expectations. Before you think about coming out though, you really need to be clear in your own mind about your sexuality and if you live at home and depend on parents for safety and security, it's probably not a good idea to come out anyway. Far better to find answers to your own questions and plan to come out when you are free and independent. Don't rush into anything.
Your right, I will take my time to establish my sexuality, Waiting is the best thing I can do right now... My only concern is that I am lying to the people I love the most.
Hey, things like this may take a lot of time to accept and understand, but it seems like you're gay since you have no interests in girls sexually. Have you ever watched/been turned on by straight porn though?
To me it seems like you're more than likely gay, but have you ever considered actually having sex with a woman just to see if you liked it? Doing that could really let you figure out your sexuality. But from what you said it seems like you're attracted to women romantically, so they're might be a chance that you're at least slightly attracted to them sexually as well. But it's all on you to figure out. Good luck.
You sound to be far on the gay side but with enough attraction to girls in order to tolerate dating them.
