so, I came out to my straight crush this week. She was completely supportive, but I didn’t get the idea that she’s into girls. But. As she has said in the past, she said she would ‘absolutely’ be in a relationship with a girl, ‘if the right girl came along’ But still, I don’t think she’s gay (or even questioning). She’s always dated guys. We are not young (she is over 50!) so presumably, if she REALLY had the desire to be with a woman (like I do- I’ve wanted this my whole life- but never let myself acknowledge it), she would have figured this out before now?? Is she a lost cause? I’ve been working on letting go of this crush because she a) is not gay and b) isn’t into me I don’t think- tho a few months ago I SWEAR we had this weird chemistry- like whenever We touched I would feel electric shocks...and sometimes I would catch her staring at me. But not lately. I’m so confused. Have never had a straight girl say she might go out with a gay girl. It’s usually a solid NO!
