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Weighing up whether I might be genderfluid

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by Mindwarp, Jan 29, 2017.

  1. Mindwarp

    Regular Member

    Dec 31, 2016
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    Male (trans*)
    Sexual Orientation:
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    Lately I've been considering the possibility I might be genderfluid. Until recently I considered myself AFAB FtM, and I certainly do want to go ahead with HRT and surgery, but since it came to light that I'm intersex, and was born ambiguous but male-leaning and was screwed up as a baby by a clueless doctor, I haven't known what to call myself.

    I've become more comfortable with female expression in recent months, and I think I might in fact be genderfluid. I do flinch a little when somebody mistakes me for a girl when I'm presenting male, but when I'm actually being a girl, it barely hurts at all any longer. I don't think I'd want to use gender-neutral pronouns, though. I'm a little lost, but hoping that somebody here might be able to give me advice.